They say TEENAGE is the time when we are curious about our body and there are many first experences. We were curious, inquisitive and experimental. The romantics say we must treasure our first experience. Practical people like me just try to get more experience and be good at it. At that age, we often talk about it, speculate about it and mostly the boys boast about it.
Of course not everyone is dirty like me. I am aware that there are ‘respectable ladies ‘ here in this forum who do not even want to read about IT. I think they are still waiting to savour it.
I believe this saying is wrong. When we are past 45 years old you would find that there are more first time experiences that will happen to your bodies then you had when you were a teenager. And we should talk and learn more about them, less we are lead astray. For example, the first time your hairs starts to turn silver, the first time your hair disappears, the first time we waited till the bus stops completely before we ambark, the first time you walk up the overhead bridge instead of running across the road, the first time you notice you cannot run . Than comes your first heart attack, your first stroke, your first catarac, the first time you make sure to stand very close to the urinal or your feet will get wet.
I am therefore intrigued that there are so few people here willing to share their first experences here. Are they just waiting for them to happen again than get better at it the next time. Or maybe they want to savour it because it will be their first time.
I hope, like Jacqualine, Kenneth and others you will be more willing to come forward to share your experiences. There is nothing to be shy about your first time experiences. We are not a teenager anymore and we should learn as much as possible and early. Then perhaps we will not turn frigid when the next ‘First Experience’ comes.