UPDATED: 26 June 2023

Enthusiastic members hand at work…

VENUE CHANGED: BLOCK 93B TELOK BLANGAH STR 31 12 FLOOR

Hi All

Tom Low have posted the above craft (on SHC FB) I make for him and many has shown interest – I am going to EO this activity, my 2nd time in SHC.

This is the link for you to understand more of the craft n all the photos posted in SHC FB – www.youtube.com/shorts/G9rfOwdc7a8

Interested Members, can register to this Forum

• DATE: Monday, 26 June 2023 @ 7:00pm
• VENUE: Block 93B Telok Blangah Street 31 @ 12th Floor
• FEE: $15.00 per participant (inclusive of a set of craft + Coffee|Tea only)

You will learn the basics and then bring home to complete your task.

Registered Members (Full Name): –

1. Joanne Khoo
2. Wendy Yam
3. Irene Lim
4. Teresa Kwan
5. Henry Toh
6. Joyce Chua
7. Prema Lata
8. Celina Chong

Dear SHC Members

Registration on SilverHairsClub Forum allows you to write a POST or a COMMENT to enable you to participate in the Forum.

For REGISTRATION | LOGIN | Forget PASSWORD – please email to Dolly Lim – dlgummy@hotmail.com

For POST | COMMENT – please email to Sally Foo – salfoongkit@gmail.com

Regards

SHC Admin

Dolly Lim | Sally Foo

OBITUARY – Mdm Susan Tan Chwee Huay

Today, I want to share with you a very personal and emotional story. It’s about Susan Tan, who was my friend and committee member for Batam D&D many years ago. She passed away early this wee morning after suffering a stroke during a trip to Ipoh in September 2022. She was in her golden years.

Susan and I met when we were both part of the committee for the Batam annual dinner trip in 2018. We had to organize everything from the venue, the food, the entertainment, and the transportation. It was a lot of work, but we managed to pull it off. Susan, a very outspoken friend never shy to voice out her opinion. She was always ready to try new things and learn from her mistakes. She at times, a troublemaker who created havoc for others, but that is her, with a great sense of humor and a big heart.

Susan loved her family very much, they are her pride and joy. She would show me pictures of them and tell me stories about their achievements and adventures. She was indeed a devoted mother who wanted the best for them. An image she inculcate in her shows her strong responsibilities as a parent.

I used not to like Susan’s way for being so outspoken. Sometimes, she would say things that hurt my feelings or made me angry. But I also admired her for being direct, honest and courageous. She never a boastful person unless she wanted to make a joke. She was a fighter in life, who faced many challenges and obstacles with determination and resilience. I saw her cooking workshop in zoom – very karang and skillful to complete the event. Bravo for her GungHo attitude.

When I heard that Susan had a stroke, I was devastated with immediate rosary miracle prayer for her. I couldn’t believe that someone so full of life and energy could be struck down so suddenly. She managed to survive the stroke and was transferred to a nursing home, but was never fully recovered. She passed away peacefully in her sleep.

Now, I miss Susan with images floating in my memories of her. She was my dearest big sister, who taught me many things and supported me through thick and thin regarding SilverHairsClub. I know now she is resting at God’s side, and I hope she is happy and free from pain. I will always look upon the stars whenever I miss her.

Thank you for reading this eulogy for Susan Tan. She was a wonderful person who touched many lives. If you knew her, please share your memories of her in the comments below. And if you didn’t know her, please send your prayers and condolences to her family and friends.
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PS : I usually don’t do eulogy on public but she – my only big sister.

DATE:    Tuesday, 25 April 2023

TIME:    8:00pm – 9:30pm

MEETING ID: 417 852 5736

MEETING PASSCODE: shc (small letters)

Join Meeting – please include your name and DO NOT tick on *Turn off my video*

EO: Dolly Lim

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Please be on time and you can log in 15 mins before 8:00pm to self-intro yourself and getting the atmosphere warm up before we start.

Getting to know you gathering in Orchard Road @ Shaw House, basement food court.
Calling all Silverhairs Club ordinary members, newbies to meet, mingle, share our activities, joys, fun and laughter. Let’s enjoy the evening together!
Thank you.
EOs : Alice Tan & Christopher Tan.

The Mar mthly gathering was just over. Held at the Esplanade, unser the Helix bridge, the event went on very well. The weather was absolutely kind to all of us.

Alice, I am glad that there is tremendous show of fellow members getting together to get to know one another.

An Veron’s video is really fantastic. It captures the occasion very well. Under the open skies and Singapore’s most modern skyline, the singers sang and entertained fellow members.

So many helping hands. I thank the committee for the great show, the singers, the members who prepared the potluck, and the volunteers who picked up the lost sheep from the meeting point.

Share this video with your friends.

Terence Seah

Most seniors like us turn to low-impact exercises and cycling is one to stay healthy in old age. We don’t have to be a great athlete to enjoy a ride.

Benefits (just to name a few):-

• Indoor stationery or outdoor cycling improves balance and leg strength.
• Give us more strength and stamina over time.
• A great way to improve our mental health, is ideal for seniors who suffer from memory loss…
• Is FUN and great supports for socializing when done in Groups ~ a great way to meet new friends.

EO – Douglas Chan (joined since 2005), our cycling enthusiast will guide you along your every trip, be it SG or JB.

Join our Active Senior Cyclers – What’sApp 9489 4360

39 ARMENIAN STREET
SINGAPORE 179941

Just got an confirmation email from the Peranakan museum  with complimentary entry with English or chinese guided tour on Mid april to May 2023.

Perankan Lunch restaurant consist of 4 different sets of menu at $10++ exclude drink. I will reveal detail upon confirmation with the peranakan boss.

Here are some suggestions to enhance a silver hairs club.

1. Offer a variety of activities: Seniors enjoy a wide range of activities, from exercise classes to social events. Make sure to offer a variety of options to cater to everyone’s interests and abilities.  .
2. Create opportunities for socialization: Seniors often face social isolation, so it’s important to provide opportunities for them to connect with others. This could include coffee mornings, games, and group outings.
3. Provide education and learning opportunities: Many seniors are eager to continue learning and exploring new topics. Offer classes or lectures on subjects that interest them, such as history, art, or current events.
4. Incorporate technology: While not all seniors are tech-savvy, many are interested in learning more about technology. Provide classes or workshops on using smartphones, social media, or other digital tools.
5. Invite guest speakers: Bring in guest speakers to talk about topics of interest to seniors, such as health and wellness, retirement planning, or local history.
6. Offer volunteer opportunities: Seniors often have a wealth of experience and knowledge to share with others. Provide opportunities for them to volunteer in the community or within the club itself.
7. Create a welcoming environment: Make sure that all members feel welcome and included, regardless of their background or abilities. Encourage a sense of community and belonging by celebrating members’ birthdays and other milestones.

Item 4 and 6 are looking forward to enhance it – looking forward for more volunteer to leverage the task.

Managing personal finances is an important aspect of maintaining a stable and healthy lifestyle. It involves keeping track of expenses, creating budgets, and making informed financial decisions. There are two main types of expenses to consider when managing personal finances: fixed and variable expenses.

Fixed expenses are costs that remain the same each month, such as rent or mortgage payments, car payments, and insurance premiums. These expenses are essential and usually cannot be avoided. Fixed expenses are predictable and can be planned for in advance, making it easier to create a budget.

Variable expenses, on the other hand, are costs that can fluctuate from month to month. These expenses include things like groceries, entertainment, and travel. They are often discretionary expenses and can be adjusted based on your needs and priorities. It is important to monitor variable expenses carefully and make adjustments as necessary to avoid overspending.

When managing personal finances, it is essential to consider both fixed and variable expenses. By understanding the difference between the two types of expenses, you can create a budget that reflects your priorities and financial goals. This will help you to manage your money more effectively and avoid unnecessary debt.

For example, let’s consider a typical monthly budget that includes both fixed and variable expenses. Fixed expenses might include rent or mortgage payments, car payments, and insurance premiums. These expenses will likely add up to several hundred or even thousands of dollars each month. Variable expenses might include groceries, entertainment, and travel. These expenses can vary widely from month to month depending on your lifestyle and spending habits.

Suppose you have a monthly income of $3,000 and your fixed expenses amount to $1,500. This leaves you with $1,500 for variable expenses. You might allocate $400 for groceries, $200 for entertainment, $100 for travel, and so on. By creating a budget and tracking your expenses carefully, you can ensure that you are living within your means and avoiding unnecessary debt.

In conclusion, managing personal finances is a crucial skill that everyone should develop. Understanding the difference between fixed and variable expenses is essential for creating a budget that reflects your priorities and financial goals. By tracking your expenses carefully and making informed financial decisions, you can manage your money more effectively and avoid unnecessary debt.

Fixed expenses are those expenses that do not change or fluctuate with the level of activity or usage. They are typically recurring expenses that are paid on a regular basis, often monthly or annually. Examples of fixed expenses include rent, insurance premiums, loan payments, and subscription fees.

Variable expenses, on the other hand, are expenses that change based on the level of activity or usage. They tend to be more flexible and are not always recurring expenses. Examples of variable expenses include utilities, transportation costs, entertainment expenses, and groceries.

Part II : Here is an example of a list of fixed and variable expenses:

Fixed expenses:

• Rent/mortgage
• Property taxes
• Insurance premiums
• Loan payments (e.g., car loan, student loan)
• Membership fees (e.g., gym membership, professional association fees)
• Subscription fees (e.g., Netflix, Spotify)

Variable expenses:

• Utilities (e.g., electricity, gas, water)
• Transportation costs (e.g., gas, public transit fares)
• Entertainment expenses (e.g., dining out, movie tickets)
• Groceries
• Clothing and personal care expenses
• Home maintenance and repair expenses

It’s important to track both fixed and variable expenses to get a complete picture of your spending habits and to help you make informed financial decisions.

Part III : My budget from $1500 reduce to $549.17

Peranakan culture is a unique blend of Chinese and Malay traditions that has evolved over centuries in Southeast Asia. If we would like to preserve this rich cultural heritage, here are some simple efforts can take:

1. Learn about Peranakan culture: Educate yourself about the history, customs, and practices of the Peranakan community. Read books, watch documentaries, attend talks, and visit museums.
2. Cook Peranakan food: The cuisine is a significant part of the Peranakan culture. You can learn to cook traditional dishes and share them with your family and friends.
3. Use Peranakan-inspired decor: Incorporate Peranakan-inspired decor into your home. You can use traditional fabrics, ceramics, and furnishings.
4. Wear Peranakan-inspired clothing: Wear Peranakan-inspired clothing, such as sarongs, kebayas, and batik prints.
5. Attend Peranakan events: Attend Peranakan cultural events and festivals. You can learn more about the culture, meet members of the community, and support local artisans.
6. Support Peranakan businesses: Buy from Peranakan-owned businesses to support the community and help preserve their cultural heritage.
7. Share your knowledge: Share your knowledge and experiences with others. Educate your family, friends, and community about Peranakan culture and its significance.

Updates!!!
Hotel chosen : Ibis Bangkok Siam
Flight Details
26/03 SIN – BKK Scoot608 Depart 0700 Arriving 0830
29/03 BKK – SIN Scoot605 Depart 1455 Arriving 1820

Cost (Flight & Hotel) : $372.15/pax 
a) Based on twin sharing @ Ibis Hotel.  For 1 single, the cost is estimated at $496/pax.
b) Handcarry bag (7kg) only
c) 15kg Baggage, extra charge of $54 for both ways
d) Departing on the next morning timing, will be incurring another $17 extra/pax
e) You will need to get travel insurance individually which we can map out later

Both Pattiya and I are planning a F&E Bangkok Trip from March 26 – 29 2023. This trip will be done solely on own timing/agenda as well as going thru obstacles with public transport – BTS and MRT, buses and others.

Maximum to go : 16 fully paid members (inclusive of Pattiya and myself), we still go ahead even we dont have 16 members.

POIs intended to adventure are as follows:

1. Iconsiam- White Orchard River Cruise – Dinner Cruise
2. Leng Saap Restaurant – Strongly recommended by Pattiya for their speciality – Pork Ribs
3. Maeklong Railway Market (hope tht I got this place right) – interesting place whereby both train and market peddlars are using the same location giving way to each other whenever needed.  A POI that definitely a go.
4. As for night market, as there are too many locations these days so we will choose 1 once we confirmed the hotel that we intended to stay
5. Not forgetting spa and massages to look out for too.
6. For those interested for shopping – maybe can try if 1 can get Korean Hanbo for the coming SHC D&D – Good suggestions right…
7. For those keen of cafe hunting for coffees and cakes, there will be no short of these too.
8. Last but not least, night spots to enjoy before we headed home

For 4D/3N, the above POIs will keep us very busy, I am sure.

I will be checking on the airfare/hotel packages thru travel agent first as the last check for online booking for both airfare/hotels will be around $330/pax based on the twin sharing.  My personal preference will be if Travel Agent’s quote is only less more that $50+, we will go for travel agent’s arrangement.  Of course, I am not stopping those to go direct to book online but on 1 clause, try to get the same hotel to save time

I would also like to advise for those going for this trip that have not taken 4th jab, to go for flu jab for protection.

Members going:
1) Pattiya
2) Dolly Lim
3) Alan Ang
4) Cheng WK
5) Terry Chun
6) Lim HP
7) Lawrence
CLOSED…

Place and date not decided.

One night in Seoul is a theme Dinner & Dance. This event is part of a series of one night events, held previously in Shanghai, Bangkok, Johor, Hongkong, Taipei and Tokyo.

This year, we move to Seoul. We plan for 100 pax, but if the organisation goes well, we may do 150 or 200 pax.

1. We start by identifying the ballroom, capable of between 100 and 200 pax.

2. Recruiting membets able to sing popular korean songs.

3. Once venue jdentified, we piece together a reception team, a F&B and decor team, a participation team, a music team, etc.

4. After venue, we look for a band or music system to meet our requirements.

Suggestions on the lookout on this forum.

Terence Seah

Hi,

Anyone interested pl PM asap.

1. Non members pay $90 for dinner n music on 3rd Feb. at the Changi beach club.

This is posted on behalf of Alice Tan – EO for Newbies Meet-up

Hear the calling, Yes, yes, you did not heard wrongly.

Calling all newbies, let’s gather at Shaw Centre on 16/01/2023, Monday from 6 pm to 9pm to have dinner and chat. Let’s enjoy and have a wonderful evening together.

EO : Alice Tan

Going hatyai on 7th Jan..
love to have 3 others to rent a car for 3 days and move around Songkla.
I am very familiar. If we share common interest pl pm me.
Hike, tennis, massage, eat, drink listen to music, sightseeing n know places for you to shop till you dropped.
3 nights.

Hi Bobby Bok,

It has come to my attention that you have been bringing groups of SHC members for tours and makan and selling and promoting products from Riway deer placenta pyramid scheme and promoters who claim pills can help stage 4 cancer.

MLM activitites is strictly not allowed in the club. And bringing members on tours, makan and presentations.

I’m about to take action and ban you from Silverhairsclub. If I do not hear from you by 31st December 2022, any justification or consideration, your ban will start immediately 1st January 2023.

Terence Seah