Actually, my main interest in joining the SHC is to make more friends and at the same time, maybe some of the SHC members could assist me in a getting a job since quitting my job on April 2005 due to an injury to my knee. Nothing to feel shame of – looking for a job. Or maybe Mr Terence or any of the members could assist. Staying at home do nothing is a waste of real time and life. Though, I am 58 and believe that I still have the required energy for job purposes as I am that type of person that never say "die".
In real terms, I have very few friends as all along, during my working life is work and study part-time whenever time permits as I do not really have the time to mix around.
There are 2 options to solve your “staying at home do nothing is a waste of time and life”. If income is an important issue, then you need a job. If it’s not, then I suggest you go for volunteering work with volunteering organisations. Maybe you can do something for members here if you possess certain skills or know-how.