Let’s Raise a Toast to the New Year

As we bid farewell to another year and eagerly await the dawn of a new one, let’s take a moment to reflect on the journey we’ve traveled.  Each passing year brings with it a collection of moments – some challenging, some joyous, and some transformative.

As the clock ticks down to midnight, wishing all members a New Year filled with hope, happiness, and the fulfillment of dreams. May you find joy in the simple pleasures, strength in adversity, and love that knows no bounds.  Here’s to a year of endless possibilities and to making each moment count.

Happy 2024 New Year!

Zonal Tiong Bahru Gathering on 20.12.23 & 23.12.23

Sorry for the loss of our beloved founder Terence Seah. RIP.  With deepest sympathy & heartfelt condolences. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. May God bless his Soul and Heaven be his place.

Zonal Tiong Bahru having it’s gathering this Wednesday 20th December 2023, 3.30pm at Kopitiam Foodcourt, 3rd floor Tiong Bahru Plaza.

For those unable to attend this Wednesday gathering, there be a similar gathering this Saturday 23rd December 2023, 3.30pm at same Kopitiam, Tiong Bahru Plaza.

You can come both days.

Zonal Tiong Bahru is designed to help you find friends living & working within the same region.

In Loving Memory of TERENCE SEAH

Dear SHC members

It is with heavy hearts that we share the last voice message from our dear friend Terence, who recently left us. In his memory and honor, we hold onto the warmth and wisdom he shared with us.


May his words continue to inspire us, and may we find solace in the memories we shared.

Please feel free to share your thoughts and memories in the comments below.

In everlasting memory of our departed founder, TERENCE SEAH

Dear Members

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of our esteemed founder, Mr Terence Seah.  He dedicated 18 years of selfless and tireless effort to maintaining Silverhairsclub.com.

Mr Seah departed us at 12:30am on Saturday, 25 November 2023.  We salute you, Terence, and you will be greatly missed.

Details of Wake and Cremation as follows:

Late Mr Terence Seah Kim Seng

Wake Date:         25 – 28 November 2023
Venue:                 MPH Block 76, Redhill Road, Singapore 150076
From:                   5.00pm onwards

Wake Service at 8.00pm on Tuesday, 28 November 2023

Cremation on Wednesday, 29 November 2023

  • 10:25 am – Encoffining
  • 10:40 am – Cortege leaves Block 76, Redhill Road
  • 11:40 am – Cremation at Mandai Crematorium, Hall# 3


Zonal Tiong Bahru having its gathering this Tuesday 17th October 2023 at 2pm.

For those prefer  Sunday, there’s another gathering on Sunday 22nd October 2023 at 3pm.

You can come both days meet different Tiong Bahru zonal.members.
Both gathering at the newly renovated Kopitiam, 3rd Floor, Tiong Bahru Plaza.
Do join us for this joyful event.
Zonal Tiong Bahru is designed to help SHC Ordinary Members find friends living & working within the same region.

Tours and makan alert by members and non-members

The Club encourages members to organise and EO these trips. These trips do require deposits payable by members in advance and then payable to the travel agent.

There may be reasons and things do go wrong. The EO may cancel the trip, change the travel agent and fail to pay the travel agent.

Members are then confused as to what has happened with their monies and what to do next.

Then, starts the blame game. Members like to travel in groups.

I encourage members to

1. Pay deposits direct to the travel agent. It is your risk if you pay to any another other persons.

2. Get a receipt for the deposit, especially big amounts.

3. Be sure u know the travel agent or the transport company.

4. Some organisers are SHC members but some are not members or have exited the Club. Pls check before joining their tours

5. Bad incidents have recently.

This is an alert. This is your choice.

Terence Seah

Update on my hospital stay last week.

Tq everybody for your concern.

I thot I shall update myself here, as there are hundreds of messages every day about my health, and I am unable to respond.

Yes, I had a 2nd heart attack, an unusually low BP, below 80 levels, leading to a blood infection which require moving my dialysis point from the chest to my groin.

The infection has caused severe chills, despite the cold air conditioning at TTSH. 7 blankets did not help. And my leg joints were just painful.  Further, blood tests are required and one more surgery expected.

Jean Lim has been with me all this while.   And she is well updated.  Tq for her care all this while.

I will be moving to the general ward, but have to apologise I wish to rest and unable to take visitors.

I enjoyed all the strange stories about this hospital stay, many are very wrong, but I guess concern was at heart. Pls do not circulate other stories, except from this forum.

For this reason, I had been pushing with succession, and will pushing again in keeping SHC team moving.

Since 2005, it has my been my desire to help seniors find friends of common interest and keep loneliness at bay. So, stay social and dont fight.

Terence Seah


Maintaining a respectful and harmonious environment is crucial. We are all senior adults and should be able to do the followings:

  1. Respect: Treat fellow members with kindness and consideration.
  2. Inclusivity: Welcome and include all members, making an effort to connect with and understand one another.
  3. Positive Communication: Use respectful language and keep your body language positive – steer clear of negative words and avoid forceful words
  4. Conflict Resolution: Address conflicts or disagreements in a calm and constructive manner, seeking resolution through open dialogue.
  5. Cooperation: Collaborate and work together to create a supportive and enjoyable atmosphere for all members.
  6. Courtesy: Practice good manners and etiquette, showing appreciation for the efforts of fellow members and club event organizers.
  7. Safety: Prioritize the safety and well-being of all members
  8. Privacy: Respect the privacy of fellow members by not sharing personal information without permission.
  9. Empathy: Show empathy and compassion towards others, understanding that everyone may be dealing with unique challenges.
  10. Open-Mindedness: being non-prejudiced or tolerant.

Remember the above are the fundamental principles of living in harmony. SilverHairsClub has one main objective; and that is to provide a platform for SilverHairs to meet new and more friends.



What is Silver Hair Club anniversary mean to me

Here is an article I wrote about the SilverHairsClub as a journalist:

The SilverHairsClub: A Social Platform for Singaporeans Over 45

Singapore is known for its fast-paced and competitive society, where people often work long hours and have little time for leisure and socializing. However, there is a group of Singaporeans who are not willing to let their age or busy schedules stop them from having fun and making friends. They are the members of the SilverHairsClub, a social club for Singaporeans and PRs over 45 years old.

The SilverHairsClub was established in October 2005 by a fairy godmother who wanted to create a platform for people in her age group to meet new and more friends, share experiences and interests, and participate in various activities and events. The club is free to join and has a strict policy of no politics, religion, sex, race, direct selling & MLM. The club has more than 25 employees who help to run the club’s operations and ensure its smooth functioning.

The club has a website and a Facebook group where members can find information, updates, and announcements about the club and its activities. The club organizes monthly gatherings at different venues where members can socialize, network, and have fun. The gatherings usually have a theme or a topic of interest. For example, the September monthly gathering will be held at Big Appetite, a restaurant at Suntec City that offers a wide choice of food and seating space.

The club also organizes trips and tours to various destinations, both local and overseas. Some of the recent trips include Melaka, Kukup, JB, Penang, Ipoh, and Bangkok. The trips are designed to cater to different preferences and budgets of the members. For instance, the 3D2N Melaka, Kukup & JB shopping tour costs S$268 per person for twin sharing and includes Nonya lunch, BBQ dinner, porridge supper, sky lanterns, fireworks, fish spa, games, mahjong, karaoke, coconut milk shake, snacks, and shopping.

The club has a forum where members can post their introduction, feedback, suggestions, or queries. The forum also has categories for different topics such as travel, hobbies, health, finance, etc. The forum is a place where members can interact with each other and exchange ideas and opinions. The forum also serves as a channel for members to voice their concerns or complaints if they encounter any issues or problems with the club or its activities.

The club is always open to new members who share its vision and values. The club welcomes anyone who is over 45 years old and is a Singaporean or PR to join the club and enjoy its benefits. The club aims to provide a friendly and supportive environment for its members to enrich their lives and have fun.

If you are interested in joining the SilverHairsClub or learning more about it, you can visit their website or Facebook group. Alternatively, you can contact Terence Seah, the fairy godmother’s assistant, for more information.

An investigation

Hi SHC members,

An investigation is currently underway. This involves threats and violence, and police report.

If the final conclusion is valid and true, the member involved will be dismissed and exited from the club.

All club members will be informed, and will be asked to exit from all activites and groups, organised by the investigated person.

This is a serious issue, and SHC cannot tolerate any such occurence and threats.

Fairy God mother has been been alerted. She sound grouchy.

If you have feedback or complaint, plse type FEEDBACK or complaint. You can be sure it will remain P&C.


Terence Seah

Sept monthly gathering, Big appetitte, Suntec city, Tues 12 Sept 2.30pm

We have started planning for Sep mthly gathering. As usual, this venue has been recommended by members.

Date and time: tues 12 sep 2.30pm to 5.30pm.

Place: Big appetite Suntec tower 3.

F&B: wide choice and seating space.

Address: Tower 3, 3 Temasek Blvd, Suntec City, Mall, #03-367/368 369/370, Singapore 038983

MRT: Promenade. Stuntec City.

Registration: To join: https://chat.whatsapp.com/HgCl9dAtS3444FVNAlZRYG

Terence Seah

3D2N Melaka, Kukup and JB 14-16th Sept 2023

3D2N 14-16th Sept 2023
Melaka, Kukup & JB shopping tour

Twin Share S$268 per pax

DAY 1 Singapore -Melaka (Lunch)
6am 1st pick up Eunos MRT
6.15am 2nd pick up Lakeside MRT
Depart for Tuas check point. After immigration & customs stop at local coffee shop for Breakfast (own expense.) Continue journey to Melaka stop at YoYo for toilet break and buy local goodies. Upon arrival at Melaka for Nonya Lunch, shop at Jonker Street for local products and try their Famous Durian Chendol. After 3pm check in at Hatten Hotel free & easy to walk across from hotel visit St. Paul’s Hill, shopping at Mahkota Mall or go for relaxing massage (Dinner at own expense.) Optional tour for those who like to go to Malim Hill Santa Cruz We assemble at 5pm Hotel Lobby and proceed for 6pm Holy Cross Adoration, Feast Day Mass Celebration

Day 2 Melaka-Kukup ( Breakfast, Dinner, Porridge for Supper)
After Breakfast in Hatten Hotel, we can shop at Mahkota mall, Hotel check out at 12noon. Will proceed to Coconut milk shake and snacks, and proceed to Malim Hill for veneration if we haven’t done the night before due to time constraints. The rest of pax, may alight to purchase some souvenirs at Santa Cruz or rest in the coach. We will transfer to Yong Peng for Ming An local products. Check in Kukup Hotel for BBQ dinner, can put out sky lantern, fireworks, fish, play games, mahjong, sing karaoke. Porridge served for supper.

Day 3 Kukup-JB-Singapore (Breakfast)
After Breakfast at the resort hotel Free & Easy shop around Kukup for Tshirts, watches, tibits, local products and souvenir. Check out 10am transfer to JB Aeon Mall for Shopping. (Lunch own expense in Mall) Around 3pm transfer back Home Sweet Home Singapore ???????? Remark – Otah will be collected before our return to Singapore.

Tour Price includes
1 night in Hatten Hotel
1 night in Kukup Resort Hotel
SVIP 30 seater Aircon Coach
Sightseeing and Meals as per attached tour itinerary
Tipping for Guide & Driver
Group Insurance of $10,000 and Medical Coverage of $500 (as per terms & conditions stipulated by appointed agent)

Tour Price excludes
Meals and sightseeing not specified in the itinerary
Visa (if necessary)

Tour Agent has the rights to change or cancel the itinerary if due to unforseen circumstances.

For further enquiry kindly reply via comment below this post. I am reachable via email faustina88era@gmail.com. From 19-26th August, I will be in Taiwan and maybe late in replying your enquiry. Thank you for your patience too!

Full payment by 28th August 2023

Christmas in November

EZ4U Music & Dance proudly presents “CHRISTMAS IN NOVEMBER”

EC : Irene Lee / Jeffrey Gan

Date : 5th November 2023 (Sunday)

Time : 2 pm to 6 pm

Venue : Serangoon Garden Country Club, Club 22

Ticket per pax : S$60/- (limited to 70 pax)

  • Llive music with oldies
  • Dance till you drop (ballroom, social, linedance) with our all-time favourite DJ, Kason Kee
  • Buffet
  • Game / Lucky draw
  • Crazy fun all afternoon

Book early to avoid disappointment.  Reservations are only confirmed upon full payment via PayNow to Irene’s mobile at 9633-6546.

For enquiries & reservations, please call Irene 9633-6546 / Jeffrey 9009-2627.

Thank you for the support as always and look forward to having some really wild fun with everyone.



SHC ukelele group

There are a number of Ukelele groups. To serve beginners as well as members wanting to share and playing different languages and dialects, we have allocated Monday 8pm over zoom for 4 weeks.

Due to the nature of zoom and the internet, this group will focus on solo playing.

This group is for members who has already a Ukelele and has started playing the instrument.

The EO for this program is Jasmine Wong.

After 4 weeks, we can decide how to proceed further.

To participate, join on zoom on Monday 8pm 1hour. Whatsapp ZOOM LINK on your mobile or desktop.

Terence Seah

Celebrating our Founder, Terence’s 68th Birthday – 25 June 2023

Saying THANKS is a great way to celebrate someone special in our life. And we are grateful and glad to be a part of the birthday star’s life.

Recounting over the decades of shared memory since 2005 – Terence has paved the path for us seniors and gave new members the chance to interact with other members is indeed a milestone of SilverHairsClub.

Here is a video montage to help us get our memories flowing of this wonderful guy.  Do share your thoughts and once again wishes our Birthday Boy…


A Tribute to Terence video by Sebastian Szeto – https://www.facebook.com/1279116600/videos/567259652242151/

SallyF (SHC Admin – Post n Comment)


Invitation to Book Launch on Saturday 1st July, 12.00 to 4.00 pm

I am launching my book, Ninety9 Reasons Why Cats Make Purrfect Pets – A Voice For Voiceless Stray Cats

DATE     :  SATURDAY 1st July 2023

TIME      :  12.00 to 4.00 pm

VENUE  :  #02-31/32 Thomson Plaza (shop across from KFC) 

You are all invited to this event. 

Besides giving me support :-) there is a cat talk, “Recipe For a Happy Cat” by a Cat Behaviorist Specialist, craft activities for childrendécor items for sale, and an auction of a cat house…all activities aim to raise funds for different cat welfare groups.

Admission to the launch is free! You only spend when you buy a book, décor items, or even bid for the cat house – all in support of cat rescuers’ work.

This is an open event, so do feel free to invite your family, bring your grandchildren for the craft activities, bring your friends who love cats or are cat curious. 

If you have not been to a book launch, this is a wonderful opportunity! Never too old to experience something new and different! I have not met any of you yet so will be very glad to see you there! 

After visiting the book launch, you may like to proceed to the Kentucky Fried Chicken right across, steps away from the launch venue…to spend more time to catch up over a snack or drink (expenses on yourself.)

Please do indicate your attendance so I know to look out for you. :-)

Look forward to see you all there!



How to create a Gravatar Account

Today, during the General Meet-Up at Hillion Mall, we do have some members wanting to add their profile photos into our SHC Forum. It can be done but first you need to create a Gravatar Account and link to word press.

Here is the link on How to create a Gravatar Account? please browse through and read to understand – click HERE

if you do not understand the above, I do hope this YouTube video will be able to guide you along on How to open a Gravatar.com account so your picture shows up on WordPresshttps://youtu.be/NeJZgQpZJpQ 

FYI, Terence did post an article in 2011 on How to use Avatar Image – please browse to refresh –  https://silverhairsclub.com/?p=3655

So, let your fingers do the walking – Happy reading n browsing the link and viewing YouTube video and hopefully you will understand and know how to insert your images.

Have fun.

SallyF (SHC Admin – Post n Comment)


UPDATED 12 Jul 2023 – video montage courtesy of Lim BT – https://www.facebook.com/100002380509781/videos/1026563512037322/

Date: Tues 27June 23

Registration closed.

Basic Trip Cost: $17 + $18 Dinner

All paid up and we are ready to go.

Itinerary: Updated 07 June 2023

7.00am Eunos MRT Open carpark along SIM Ave
7.30am Bishan MRT Exit D
8.00am Kranji MRT,  Bus stop opposite Kranji MRT
9.30am Breakfast at Hiap Joo Bakery famous for Banana Cake.
10.30am Shopping at Ninso
12.00noon Durian Buffet
2.00pm Tea Time at Fifty Trees.
3.00pm Shopping at Aeon in Bukit Indah.
4.30pm Massage at Holiday Plaza at RM90 for 2 hours including cupping and ear candling.
6.30pm Dinner at Famosa Restaurant in Taman Sentosa.  Menu posted.
7.30pm Karaoke at Citi Square or Pasar Malam .
9.00pm Heading home.

Who’s coming?

  1. EC: Dan Huang Pd 5/6
  2. CoEC: Irene Lim Pd 5/6
  3. Eliza Leong – Pd 5/6
  4. Winnie K Tan – Pd 5/6
  5. Doreen Cady – Pd 5/6
  6. Pattiya – Pd 5/6
  7. Joan Ang – Pd 8/6
  8. Dih (Diana Ho) – Pd 5/6
  9. Lim BT Pd 7/6
  10. Jennie Kuan Pd 5/6
  11. Leong Seng Juan – Pd 4/6
  12. Raymond Tan – Pd 5/6
  13. Hoon Mow Ing – Pd 5/6
  14. Amy Ko Pd 8/6
  15. Ko Tiek Kian Pd 8/6
  16. Linda Soon Pd 6/6
  17. Lynn Kee – Pd Pd 3/6
  18. Ronald Lam Pd 9/6
  19. Pearl Kwan Pd 9/6
  20. Simon Lee Pd 9/6
  21. Mr Koh Lye Teck – Pd 4/6
  22. Audrey Wong – Pd 5/6
  23. Aileen Yeo – Pd 5/6
  24. Vicky Wong – Pd/5/6
  25. Marilyn Koh – Pd 4/6
  26. June Peh – Pd 96
  27. Rosalind Lee – Pd 4/6
  28. Jade Kee Pd 9/6
  29. Julia Goh – Pd 4/6
  30. Rosie Kwan Pd 5/6
  31. Jess Lynn Pd 6/6
  32. Catherine Yeow Pd 7/6
  33. Peter Chan Pd 7/6
  34. Lynne Hoe Pd 8/6
  35. Eric Woon Pd 10/6
  36. Angie Tan Pd 8/6
  37. Linda Lim Pd 8/6
  38. Jessie Tan Pd 8/6
  39. Willie Chua Pd 7/6
  40. Jean Kiang Pd 7/6
  41. Michael Chung Pd 10/6
  42. Jessie Law Pd 8/6
  43. Jessie Tan (Audrey) Pd
  44. Loh Yew Kwong


General Meet-Up @ Hillion Mall – CLOSED

Dear Members,
Glad that to observe members are slowly into adapting this platform to post their events for members’ interests and participation.  However, I also noticed that from the broadcasting emails sending to our all members, majority are not sure how SHC Website’s protocol and sequences of getting used to the SHC Website portal more effectively, hence, i will be making myself available on

Date : 30 May 2023
Venue : Bukit Panjang Hillion Mall Kopitiam Food Court
Address : 17 Petir Road Singapore 678278
Time : 3pm to 6pm
Nearest MRT : Bukit Panjang (Downtown Line)

I will be there waiting for available for meet-up members for follow-up on issues pertaining to the above.  Of course, not forgetting the friendly networking to know each other during this meet

Hope to see you soon

Cheers… Dolly Lim/SHC Admin

Keen to join me, put in the comment and I shall add your names to the list below

1) Dolly Lim
2) Veronica Chua
3) Florence Tay
4) Aminah Bee
5) Howard Yong
6) Sue ChanWN
7) Doreen Ong
8) Chan KN
9) WK Cheng
10) Richard Leen
11) KC Lau
12) Agnes Low
13) Gingko Tay
14) May Lam
15) Pattiya
16) Sally Foo
17) Anthony Chan and wife


Tiong Bahru Zonal second lunch gathering

Tiong Bahru Zonal having it’s second lunch gathering this Friday afternoon. SHC Ordinary members who are members of Tiong Bahru Zonal come join our lunch gathering. Those interested join Tiong Bahru Zonal chatgroup WhatsApp Terence Seah 94894360

Tiong Baru Zonal lunch, please add your name here

Date; 26 May 2023 (Friday)
Time: 11.30am to 2.00pm
Place: Seah Im food center
Nearest MRT station: Harbourfront
OR Harbourfront Bus Interchange.

We will be sitting at the extreme end …
Those coming:
1. Max Ho
2. Annie Loh (Robinhood)
3. Aminah Bee

Zonal Sengkang – Tuesday, 13 June 2023

UPDATED – video montage by Maggie 

Let’s get together to LimKopi again! Meet up with new and old friends to mingle around, eat and have fun.

EC: Maggie Loh

Please put in the comment below if you are interested to join us!

Date: Tuesday, 13 June 2023
Time: 4pm – 8pm
Location: The Woodleigh Mall – Food Republic (#B1-09/10)
11 Bidadari Park Drive, Singapore 367803

  1. Maggie Loh
  2. David Ong
  3. Lilian Ong
  4. Theresa Seow
  5. Ah Nee
  6. Lucy Tan
  7. Nora Chia
  8. Belinda Toh
  9. SK Goh
  10. Victor Khor
  11. Maureen Lee
  12. Doris Koh
  13. James Tan JH
  14. Seah Miang Siang
  15. Theresa Kwan
  16. Diana Ng
  17. Juliet Say
  18. Ros Khoo 
  19. Regina – Will be abit late
  20. Richard LEAN
  21. Clara Chay
  22. Jasmine Lim
  23. Leslie Choo
  24. Dolly Lim
  25. Sally Foo
  26. Harold
  27. Ivy Ng

Please add in your name if you interested.

Hope to see you soon! Thank You