Latest Update : Robert’s Wake is held at Mount Vernon Sanctuary, Purity Hall. Was told that funeral will be on this Friday, 8 Apr 2011 – Details will be updated later… Dolly
Another SHC member, Robert Quek had left us today (Apr 4, 2011) – He was admitted on April 1 to Tan Tock Seng Hosptial due to massive stroke which subsequently went into coma. Sad to be told by his family members that his heart had stopped and passed on with both Kristy and son by his side. Many friends were beside him. – A group of us were there to pay him visit before this and we were all praying hard that he is able to pull thru’ – I supposed Robert felt that this is best that he wanted himself to be.
Both Robert and Kristy had joined SHC in Y2007. He was a good natured and humble man which I am sure that they were well liked by many other members. He was very active in events’ planning for many SHC members. I can still remembered that he used to arrange for free concerts and movies at either Esplanade or NUS, Weekly MacRitchie walks, Dinner & Live Band at Changi Saiing Club, Monthly makan and social get together, Special wak to the Tree-top and Observation Tower, many Self Development seminars, etc etc
He was also a very sporting member which I can remembered very well during our 2nd SHC D&D – he was impersonating a Japanese dancer which brought us a lots of laughters and fond memories.
Sympathy and condolences to both Kristy and son and may we prayed for them to be strong to face life ahead.
As this point of time, I do not have any other more updated details to be given here.. Once they are available, I will update accordingly.
Always remembered by Dolly
A silent moment for Robert.
God Bless.
Though I do not know Robert well, he had impressed on me to be an affable man.
Dear Kristy, do be strong. I’m sure Robert would want both you and your son to be well.
Sincerely
Daisy Yeo
Hi Dolly,
Am quite distressed to hear about Robert’s passing away.
I hope Kristy and the son are keeping well. We will miss a good man.
Can you update the wake details when you have them?
I would like to pay my respect and condolences to the family.
A humble man, always helpful and pleasant. A great friend to have. We all miss you RobertQ.
Kristy, be strong and know we share your sadness.
My condolensce to Kristy & family.
Do you think it is a good idea to have a photo gallery of him as a tribute.. ie compile all his photos taken at SHC functions..
Cheers
A sad & hopeful song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1GmxMTwUgs
Angel” Lyrics:
Spend all your time waiting
for that second chance
for a break that would make it okay
there’s always some reason
to feel not good enough
and it’s hard at the end of the day
I need some distraction
oh a beautiful release
memory seeps from my veins
let me be empty
oh and weightless and maybe
I’ll find some peace tonight
In the arms of the angel
fly away from here
from this dark cold hotel room
and the endlessness that you fear
you are pulled from the wreckage
of your silent reverie
you’re in the arms of the angel
may you find some comfort here
So tired of the straight life
and everywhere you turn
there’s vultures and thieves at your back
the storm keeps on twisting
you keep on building the lies
that you make up for all that you lack
it don’t make no difference
escaping one last time
it’s easier to believe
in this sweet madness oh
this glorious sadness that brings me to my knees
In the arms of the angel
fly away from here
from this dark cold hotel room
and the endlessness that you fear
you are pulled from the wreckage
My condolensces and sympathy to Kristy & family,
I remember him as a humble,helpful, knowledgeable and humourous friend.
Besides what Dolly had mentioned of his contributions , he is also actively involved in helping those “unfortunate” in his R.I.C.H. ( not wealthiness but stands for Regular Interaction Circle of Harmony ) support group through monthly gathering at his home most of the time. And feedback from members that they are very happy with those activities at the gatherings.
Kristy and son,Nicky be strong . We share your sadness too. Nicky please take very good care of Kristy as Robert , her caregiver is no longer around.
Many thanks to Dolly for putting up this post of a tribute to Robert Quek Soo Kee , an ex English retired school teacher.
Appreciated,
Steven Chan
My heart is heavy – had just gone to see him and on reaching home, received news of his passing.
Always remembered – a smiling face at the SHC events which he attended with Kristy. His handshake was warm and assuring. He would joke and made everyone laughed. Will miss him.
Kristy, be strong.
I was beside his bed , holding his hands and with tears in my eyes calling out to him and reliving our memories of our good times together hoping that he can pull through as the doctor said he can still hear but cannot respond. And pray very hard that a miracle can happen.
According to the doctor who was around , she said Robert’s heart has stopped beating ( 0 pulse ) but there is still some electrical brain impulses. She was waiting for all the impulses to stop before he can be certified dead.
Half an hour later, Kristy ,Nicky and a pastor from the Salvation army arrived and was praying for him. Kristy, Nicky and many friends were around to see the last of him.
Hi All,
I had updated the post to include the details of Robert’s wake at Mount Vernon Sanctuary, Purity Hall.
Sam and me will be going there 2nite.
Spoken to Kristy this morning and she said that Robert probably missed the SHC groups n glad that we had visited him last nite. We r glad that we make this trip down..
Be strong, Kristy… Regards… Dolly
I spoke to Kristy on the phone yesterday afternoon asking abt Robert’s condition and said that I’ll pray for him and hope some miracle would happen. Now so sad to hear he passed away. I always remember his smiling & cheerful face
whenever he attended SHC events with Kristy. All of us from SHC will miss you Robert Quek.
My deepest condolence to Kristy and son, be strong & I too share the sadness with you.
So sorry to hear about Robert Quek’s demise.His passing is so sudden and Kristy and their son have my deepest condolences.
I remember Robert Quek and Kristy as one of the most likeable couples in SHC.
My message for Kristy is:
Grieve for him Kristy, but life has to go on. Be strong for your son. Look to the future with your son. Take care.
With deep sadness, we have lost Robert, a fine gentlemen, humourous, loving husband & helpful, a fun guy to be with.
Be it Beautiful Sunday at Esplanade, Art & film festivals, esp outdoor screening of movies like Tg Rhu open field, Robert would post or email us to join him & Kristy.
We all will missed Robert Quek.
Kristy – be strong!
In the midst of my busy morning in office… i just can’t help but cry out… Oh God.. why do u allow good people to die???
Bless his soul, O God… for our brother Robert Quek has departed from us… to be with you. Eternally.
O God .. give strength to Kristy & son. Comfort them in this time of distress. Kristy, if you’re reading this.. i’ll always have fond memories of the times we spent together. I will always remember the time when I was very new in SHC, and you & Robert welcomed me to your home for an afternoon karaoke & hi-tea. And then we adjourned to the hotel talk. I can’t recall the talk’s topic, but I can always remember the warmth you’ve extended to me, as a new member. And the numerous other subsequent outings with both yourself & Robert.
Take care & god bless you.
Lydia.
A well respectable, helpful & humble man… Robert, you will be fondly missed! Take care Kristy.
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i , recall back the nus free movie which i attended with humble friendly smile robert & kristy…
he was so warmth & happy to meet me for the 1st time..
robert & me ,we both had a good chat like old frend..
he say sam jia you jia you..good to know that i am with dolly here.. he also want to invite us to their hus for a pot luck makan..b4 dolly was posted to haigou..
last nite few of us buddies were there ,we recd SMS from the security that we ve to be out ,as there are others wat to visit.so we left about 2015hrs.. then half hr later new came in that he ve passed on..
kristy & nickey , as i ve spoken to u both this morning..
pls be strong , i am sure robert want it too ..
sam huat
Dear Kristy
My deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. I hope you will take good care of yourself.
I remember Robert as the soft spoken Gentleman who dotes on his wife. And would offer rides home for those who do not drive. Even though its not on the way, he will still insist its on the way. And arranging for us the talks and seminar, and the dinners after that. Always have a smile for everyone. Never ever see him lose his cool.
And yes Dolly, I remember him as the cute Japanese “girl” with the umbrella and cha kiak. Always so sporting!
Dear Robert
Rest in peace. We will miss you.
Warmest Regards
Caroline
Hi Kristy, Robert may have left us, but the memories remain. I wish you stay strong and that you continue to move on with your life.
Take care.
Terence Seah
Dear Kristy,
My deepest condolences to you & your family on the loss of a beloved one. Your sorrow is shared by everyone who knew Robert as a noble man, one who’d enlighten the hearts of many. He will always be well remembered & forever
etched in our hearts.
Kristy, in this difficult time of profound grief, you ought to take care and remain strong with god’s blessings. Our thoughts & prayers are always there with you.
Sincerely yours,
Oh dear! I remember Robert and Kristy. I see them together at SHC events. I recalled Robert making a collage of photos of the Monthly Meeting held at Marilyn Tang’s condo. He asked for my email and sent me the collage.
May God bless Kristy and son. Robert has led a fruitful and active life and although he is gone, he is not forgotten.
Rosalind
Dear Kristy,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Be strong and please take good care of yourself. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
I visited Robert at the hospital last evening. Imagine my shock when I received a text msg fm Dolly two hours later saying that his heart had stopped…
Robert, may you rest in peace. We will miss you.
With fond memories,
Gingko
I am saddened to read of Robert’s past away….. a friendly and cheerful man, you will dearly miss by all of us.
My heartfelt condolences to Kristy and son, time will heal your sorrow, please take care and be strong.
Ah Nee
Dear Kristy
Sincere condolences to you and your son.
I am glad I had the pleasure of knowing Robert and yourself
although briefly and will always remember Robert diligently putting up posts for movies and self development talks. Both of you took the time to come down on a Sunday to have lunch at pek kio with the badminton group and he even took pictures and emailed to us very soon after. It shows both your caring nature. He will be missed. He will be looking after you and your son from Heaven. God Bless!
Dear Kristy
Deepest Sympathy and Heartfelt condolences to you and your family on the loss of your loved one. Robert will rest in peace with the Lord.
Do take good care of yourself and son.
With Regards
Rene
Patrick, I am not good on photography work and if u can volunteer to do, pls feel free to do so.
Few members had asked for direction to the funeral wake but sorry, I am afraid that I am unable to help on this. Any other members, can help, pls advise. Many thanks.
Those who intend to attend the wake, kindly be informed that they will closed and locked the door by 10.30pm.
The cremation will be held at Mount Vernon Cremation Centre at 2.45pm on Friday 8, 2011.
Regards.. Dolly
We lost a stalwart man and a wonderfully jovial person. He was one of the earlier EO who organized activities for the Club.
Dear Kristy, we pray that you will be strong knowing that Robert has gone to a better place!
Dolly, the cremation is at the brand new Mandai Crematorium as Mt Vernon has ceased to be a crematorium.
Dan
I read Dolly’s post on Monday night, almost as soon as it was posted. I could not bring myself to leave a reply then. Somehow, no words seem appropriate at times like these.
My heartfelt condolences go to Kristy and son. It is my loss that I did not get too know Robert better. We can take comfort that he is now in a better place.
Ron Koh
bro dan @ # 27…wah wah so late still so awake hor….
long time no meet ..ho sei bo ?? actually last meet was on prom nite..hahahha…
yes dolly ,ah kor kor dan is right in on mandai..mt veron oredli closed shop liao….
sam huat huat
Dear Robert
“I shall pass this way but once; any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show – let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again” is a quote many of us have heard of, and you were the living example.
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your passing and will miss your presence and our next chess game. You said you were going into secret training.
Dear Kristy, you have my deepest sympathies. Take comfort that an angel is watching over you and your son. Be strong and take care.
Joy
Hi All,
So sorry for the wrong info. It shd be funeral service on 8 Apr at 2.30pm and cremation at Mandai Crematorium Hall 3 at 3.45pm.
Rgds, Dolly
Hi Dolly #26
will be glad to take photos when Im at the event.
I usually have the camera with me.
O yes, I have quite a no of photos on my facebook.
will download Jeff’s performance and Hamidah and the gang video today..on it
regards
pat
btw, is there any way to amend posting ..or delete..(like this am…it was double posting cos I click too fast)
Dear Kristy,
We read with sadness Robert’s passing. We remember him for the events he planned for SHC members. He was so humble, helpful & well liked.
Our deepest sympathy & condolence to you and your family.
Philip & Priscilla Wee
Dear Kristy & Nicky,
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear,just know that you are very close in every thought & prayer.
God saw Robert getting tired and a cure was not to be.So He put his arms around him and whispered “Come to Me”
With tearful eyes we watched you and saw you pass away.
Although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,hardworking hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best.
May your soul Rest In Peace,Robert.
Dear Kristy
I only met you and Robert once at the get together at Madeline’s condo. you both gave me good impression of being warm, friendly and Robert is such a gentleman. He invited me to the free movie and told me how to get to NUS (though I said it’s very far from where i live).
My deepest condolence …be strong Kristy.
SAD indeed. No words can express my pain…..absolutely no words. Sigh
Dear Kristy,
I was shocked to hear of this bad news only this morning. Even though I hardly went out with you n Robert but the memories of our last get-together was having coffee & chips at KFC with a few other SHC friends after a dinner n dance. If you remember, we were sharing our thots on having just an only child and how hard it was to let go of our apron strings etc.
Kristy, do be strong and always remember that you have lots of friends out there esp. in SHC so let time and friends be your best healer. Robert will always be remembered in our hearts as a kind, gentle and fun-loving man. With sincere sympathy and condolences…. Lisa O.
halo SCHIANS ,
dolly n me , we are paying our last respect 2 nite @ mt vernon. will be there ard 2000hrs. the plc will be lock @ 2230hrs…
sam hbuat
Dear Kristy,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your son. I can only hope that you will be resilient and continue with life, with its happy memories. Stay strong and positive!
Good-bye Robert – I will always remember your smile and the few words exchanged whenever we chanced to meet at SHC functions.
May you rest in peace!
Hi Kristy,
Robert has left us only to be with the Lord, so be strong with Nicky to learn and discover a new plan ahead. Your loss is our great loss too for those who knew his big warmth, caring heart and cheerful mind. You were both willing to share all you have with anyone and your home was always open to one and all.
Please continue to live as he did, just as the Lord as welcome him, continue to welcome others to your heart.
Goodbye Robert, your journey has just begun. Dont’ worry,
there are many friends here for Kristy, to keep her company.
Dear Kristy
My deepest condolences to you and your son, Nicky
I remember those days when we had small gatherings at your home and Ron Lai’s home and also the free afternoon concerts at Esplanade and the lunches after the concerts
We will miss you, Robert and may you rest in peace, Amen
Kristy, be strong and take care
Dear Kristy and Nicky
I was taken by surprise and sadden to read Robert’s passing. My deepest condolence to you. Be strong and stay positive.
I remember Robert as a kindhearted and lovable person and these are a few of his many wonderful personalities. Always with a smile on this face so sincerely deep within from his heart.
We had a chance for the 3 of us to be photographed at a function we attended together. Robert kindly emailed to me and this photo is so lovely.
Robert, rest my friend. Do not worry about Kristy and Nicky, the Lord will continue to guide and keep them safe with you by His side in heaven.
We will miss you
Agnes
Dear Kristy,
Though some of us (SHC members)visited Robert on 4.4.11 around 7 plus, we didn’t had a chance to speak to him.
I was shock to hear that he’d passed away on that very night when I came back.
Robert will be always remembered as a good friend of mine and I will always keep him in my prayers.
Please be strong and I hope to be able to reach you by his hp. Will you still keep the same number as a rememberance?
I understand that you are staying elsewhere and I’m afraid I wont be able to reach you at your residence.
Yours truly,
Cat Ho
Hi Kristy,
I visited Mr Robert in the Hospital on 4 Apri 11 at abt 8.30 am. My deepest condolensces to you and your family. Quotes for today: As we put the front foot down, we lift the back foot up. We let yesterday go, and focus on today !!
Take Good Care !!!
Thomas Loh
In lieu of catching up with old friends today at the monthly meeting, I checked out the www.
Reading Robert’s passing shows how transient is our existence here on earth, more so with this age group.
My condolence to Kristy and their son. May Robert rests in peace.
I will always remember Robert’s caring ways in arranging for us to attend training sessions at the basement of Hotel Intercontinental.
Regards to one and all …………… Edwin