Month: March 2007

Some of us have been thinking how to write and share with other SilverHairs their interests.  Many SilverHairs would like to meet other SilverHairs with the same interests.  But, some of us are just shy, and not so sure where to start. Well, we shall make it easy for some of you.

Send an email to Vishal at Vishal@SilverHairsClub.com with your mobile telephone number.  Tell him you have some thoughts and ideas, and would like to share with others your ideas and interests.  We will call and talk with you, do a short write up for you on this website, and invite similar like-minded SilverHairs to share their thoughts with you.  Strictly for SilverHairsClub members only.

Your interests and thoughts can be on retirement plans, hobbies, going concerts, starting a small bread shop, joining travel, etc, etc, etc.

If you can do so yourself, do share with us and write your interests and ideas on this website.  Don’t be shy.  You can do so anytime.

This coming Saturday, the SHC line dancers will be late due to their participation in the monthly walk.

They will be going to F.E. Sq. only after their walk and dinner.  Therefore, there will not be any lesson this Saturday.  Also, there will not be any posting of the dance list as – request will be made on ad hoc basis as and when required by SHC dancers.

The jam will start as usual at 7pm, Far East Square, Metal Gate.  Dress colour code : White.

Terence, It was a pleasant surprise to see you on Sat. and new comer Dave.

Dave, it was your first time – so, don’t be too hard on yourself.  "Rome was not build in one day."  Continue to come and join in the fun and exercise.

There was another new comer – a lady who came late.  She came at the end when you guys have already had your "lessons and practices on the dance floor".

A reminder for anyone who wish to join us on Sat.  "Lesson" at 6pm followed by "dancing" from 7pm onwards.

Details of venues and timing for Sat. and Wed. nights line dancing have been posted previously in this website, so I will not repeat it here.

Hope to see more new faces joining us either on Wed or Sat.

Some 25 years ago, I was in London, and on a number of weekends, I used to visit the discotheques at Leicester Square.  With the coming of the D&D, I suddenly got into the mood this morning to share with you two songs, which I had linked to YouTube.  The first time, you listen to it, the quality is not good.  On your speakers, and listen to it the second time.

1. Dancing Queen – by Abba.  Click here.
2. Saturday Night Fever – Dancer John Travolta.  Click here.

Feel free to share your favourites, before the D&D.  Share with fellow SilverHairs your mood. 

Terence Seah

We did a summary of SHC membership.  Thought it is good to share with you.  Due to difficulty of collecting response, I would give an accuracy of +/- 5%.

Membership composition:
– Total registered – close to 3,000 with a mix of Chinese, Indian and Malay.
– to the best of our knowledge, 100% are over 45 years.
– 85% are still actively employed or engaged in own business.
– 15% are retired or not working.
– 60% are females and 40% are males.

Language:
– English is commonly used.
– 10% speaks mainly Mandarin, and not comfortable to join SHC activities because English is our common medium.

PC and internet fluency:
– 40% have no access to a PC at home, or their kids occupy most of the computer time.
– 60% have access to internet at home/office. 
– at least 50% are not comfortable with PC and internet.
– about 80% prefer phone and SMS communication.

Reasons for joining SilverHairsClub:
– a high 85% join with the aim of finding new friends, although we are not clear about the remaining 15%.
– common reasons for joining include friendship, finding travel partners, find healthy activities and sharing retirement issues.

Interesting perceptions about the SilverHairsClub:
– each month, we encounter about 5-10 queries if SHC is linked to any government agencies, in particular RC groups.  We try to stay as an informal social club.
– prior to joining SHC, common queries include "whether SHC is a dating club?"  However, after going through the SHC website, and when told SHC is not a dating club, these group still decide to join SHC.

Feedback:
– More than 80% of members prefer SHC to remain independent, simple and free and easy.
– some 5% prefer an organised structure, with a management structure or committee.  SHC operates by events.  Each event is led by an Event organiser, with a small adhoc committee.  All are volunteers.
– there are suggestions for a membership subscription of $1-2 per month to help with expenses.  SHC has taken the decision, no subscriptions will be collected.
– SHC receives strong support from members for its one single objective of providing a platform for SilverHairs, over 45, to meet new and more friends.
– Many members have accepted our taboos on politics, sex, race, religion, direct selling and MLM during club’s events.

We would like to  your feedback to this summary.

Terence Seah

We are having the 3rd SHC webchat session on Sat, Mar 17, 1400 – 1600 hrs.  For those who have never joined our activities, please come and join in.  For details, click here.  Read also what Yew Kwong has to say, from his MacDonald Cafe, East Coast.

A number of SilverHairs have had discussions about what life will be like, during our SilverHairs years.  One conclusion.  The internet will help us keep in touch with one another, even if we are overseas.  So, give this SHC webchat a go.  See you then.

Terence Seah

The response to the SHC D&D at Serangoon Gardens Country Club ballroom has been more than overwelming.  Even I am surprised at the numbers.  Many members have not met one another, yet we are all looking forward to the friendship among SilverHairs.

Event Organiser Dolly Lim has refused to let me know the program for the night, so I cannot tell you too.  The organising committee has promised an exciting evening, but like all SilverHairsClub events, we try to do everything ourselves, at the best we can.  So, be prepared for some surprises, little faults and missed timings.  I am over 50, and there are many of us over 45. So, come and enjoy the company of other SilverHairs.

Strictly for SilverHairsClub members only.  Read all about the D&D here.

Terence Seah

The idea of going out for an overnight outing in Batam, Johor Bahru, Pulau Ubin or at one of Singapore’s 7 islands has been raised a number of times, but we have never kicked it off.  One idea include going to Batam or Bintan for a 2-day overnight with games, health exercises, investment chats, etc.  Another idea was to Johor Bahru to a resort, and include games, eats, interaction, relaxation, retirement discussion.  So far, these are week-ends and supposedly very relaxing.  The aim is to increase interaction opportunities and knowing one another better.   Ok, we now set our minds to going to have one of these events.

Tentative, I have set a date for Sat/Sun 7/8 July 2007.  Please put your ideas or suggestions here.  There is no bad idea.  And, if you can come, simply register your name here.  And, I am on the lookout for SHC overnight Event Organiser too.  Raise your hands please.

If you know of a place, a hotel, a resort, a camp area with food, less than SGD 55 per pax, please share with us all.  Nasi lemak and teh tarik will do. 3 star lodgings or bungalows will do.  Domitories are ok, as long as one dunlop and one pillow per person.  No need for hot water.  One or two cockcroaches no problem. Hopefully, can bring bicycles along.

Let’s start.

There is a suggestion to go Batam, Comment 14.

Terence Seah

Opportunity to go for a photo shoot, commissioned on behalf of MCYS.
· Building strong bonds within the extended family
· Promoting active ageing among seniors and encouraging active participation
in economic, volunteering and learning activities

1,   Working professionals 50s-60s, basketball coach mentoring  students.
2.  Chinese man, 30s: to act as son to the Chinese man (preferably with resemblance to the “father”)
3.  2 Chinese women, 50s-60s: as working professionals and volunteers, preferably 1 nurse
4.  1 Chinese woman, 30s:  as daughter to the nurse (preferably with resemblance to the “mother”)
5.   1 Indian man, 50s-60s: as working professional and volunteer
6.   1 Indian woman, 40s-50s:  as dance instructor,  eg. waltz, salsa, folk dance. Preferably slender.
7.  2 Eurasian women, 50s: as sisters. 1 will be a dance student learning waltz, salsa, folk dance. Preferably slender.
8.   2 Malay men, 50s-60s: to act as brothers

Shoot dates: Mar 13 Tues, Mar 14 Wed, Mar 15 Thurs.  Alternative dates:  Mar19,  Mon, Mar 20,Tues
Talent fees: $75 for full day (8hrs), $50 for half day (4hrs).  Talents are to be engaged on a half day or full day basis.

Photos
1.  2-3 recent photos (full-face, full-height). Email photos in jpeg files.
Pls send 2 photos at a time, less than 2 mb)
2.  Basic info (name, contact numbers, email, occupation, age, height, weight, hair length, eye colour).

I think it would be nice if a number of us take part.  If you like to participate, please email or call me at 9489-4360 from today to Tue Mar 6 for the contact.  You may also add a comment here.

Terence Seah

Hi everybody,  this is a reminder.  The SilverHairsClub is strictly for members. Over 45s, and no discussion on politics, sex, race, religion, direct selling or MLM.

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You are advised not to leave your telephone number, email address or contact address on this website.

We encourage creativity and thought provoking discussion, but please be sensitive in your posts or comments.  Business ideas and investments discussions are also encouraged; however you are advised to exercise discretion and caution.

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Terence Seah

Dance list for this Sat. 3 March public line dancing posted under Line Dancing category.  Those who have the time, come and join in the fun and exercise.

Also included other line dance news.  Check it out! 

Venue: Far East Square – Metal Gate
Date: 3 March 07
Time: 7pm – 1030pm
Fee: $2
Dress code: Bling Bling (shiny)

1. Ghost Train
2. Come On Over Baby
3. Stroll Along Cha
4. The tide is high
5. Crazy Love
6. DHSS
7. Ain’t It Funny
8. My humps
9. She’s Like The Wind
10. Kiss your heart goodbye
11. Make a move
12. Venus/Ho Hou Ying
13. Corazon Espinado
14. 2004* Play
15. Simplemente
16. Evergreen
17. Get Me Bodied
18. Buttons
19. Mib
20. Bootylicious
21. Whenever
22. Little star
23. Still Dirty
24. I tell you what
25. Like Wot You Do
26. Pon De Replay
27. Something that you do
28. Angel
29. Hit the floor
30. Want Ya
31. Booty Shakin/ TGIF
32. Make A Move
33. Ass In Motion
34. Candyman
35. Arabian Night
36. Beep
37. Get Mine, Get Yours
38. Body in motion
39. Last Minute
40. Island in the stream
41. Window Shopping
42. Marimba
43. Sail Away Cha
44. Alive
45. Mysterious Girl
46. Control me
47. Don’t Cha Wish
48. Ass In Motion
49. Black Horse
50. Cant help myself

All are welcome.  We will go through the requested numbers (in colour) at 6pm.