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Sun
29
Apr '07

Europe holiday

Lena Chin is looking for a lady friend to tour E. Europe - 5 countries ($3,100)

Leaving 10 May for 13 days.  Her travelling companion backed out last minute.  Anyone interested, contact her lena_chin@hotmail.com.

Post on behalf of Lena.

Enjoy and have a great time.emoticon

Sat
28
Apr '07

SilverHairsClub April Gathering, Sun 29 Apr 2007

Thanks to the sunshine, I hope that all who turned up had a good time.  There were altogether 40 of us.  I had said a mini potluck but most of you were naughty and made it into a MAXI potluck that no dinner was needed at the end of the show. 

Ron Lai had a suggestion that we have a little SHC flag or banner that we could use at activities outdoor so that we could be found easily especially by the newbies.  I agreed and had also thought of using a placard, but somehow slipped my mind on the day.  Perhaps whoever is the event organiser at an outdoor activity can consider this proposal.I want to thank Lily Yen for helping me with the registration, Kenneth for being there early to reserve the nice spot away from the sun, Pheng Sok, Kristy, Peggy, Clara  for helping with the litter and everyone else for their help in one way or the other.  Thank you Terence for  this opportunity to do something I have never done before.  I enjoyed every moment of it.  Most of all thanks to all of you who were there for without you this event would not be.

To see the pictures, click here.

  • Date:  Sun 29 April 2007
  • Time: 1600 - 1800 hrs (SilverHairsClub outdoor gathering)
  • time: 1800 - 1900 hrs (Outdoor Rhapsody series by Singapore Chinese Orchestra)
  • Venue: Shaw Foundation Symphony Stage
  • No charges.
    1. Getting there: transport and parking information and entrances..  Click here.
    2. Map: Click here.
    3. F&B outlets: http://www.sbg.org.sg/visitorinfo/fnbgiftsoutlets.asp
    4. Gardens’ rules: http://www.sbg.org.sg/visitorinfo/usageparktc.asp

    This is the first outdoor monthly gathering and I hope you guys can bring along your mats and come down to meet up with the others and then sit  back to enjoy the music by the Singapore Chinese Orchestra. 

    As the afternoon may be hot so dress cool and do remember your umbrella, sunshades and very important water.

    I have mentioned mini potluck as it would be easier to bring snacks, sandwiches, puffs, titbits, crackers, chips, fruits, jelly, whatever that is light and convenient.  Bring just enough to share with two or three persons as we can have dinner after the show.  The Taman Serasi Food Garden  would be a good choice and there is variety and everyone can choose whatever they want.  It is situated near the Tanglin Gate entrance.

    Event Organiser: Oi Cheng

    Participants

    1. Ann 
    2. Tim Liu
    3. Lily Ho 
    4. Yew Kwong
    5. Caroline Gee 
    6. Ann Lim
    7. Beng Wi
    8. Eileen Ang 
    9. Melissa
    10. Linda Chang
    11. Steven 
    12. Annie Loh
    13. Clara
    14. Terence
    15. Eleanor Chan 
    16. Gladys Tan
    17. Jade Phua
    18. LH Jie
    19. Peggy
    20. Joseph Tan
    21. Robert
    22. Kristy
    23. Irene Chan
    24. Shirley Wong 
    25. Pam Ong
    26. Jessie Tan 
    27. Pheng Sok
    28. Petera See
    29. Eyvonne Chew
    30. Lesley Ho
    31. Zariah 
    32. Dolly
    33. Joy
    34. Pauline Au Yong 
    35. Priscilla Wee
    36. Christina Chan
    37. Kenneth Tan 
    38. Ronald Lai
    39. Alice Tan
    40. Eliza Chua
    41. Nina Gan
    42. Veronl 
    43. Gwyneth 
    44. Catherine 
    45. Oi Cheng
    46. Lily Yen
    47. Daniel
    48. Lina Tan
    49. Maria

    Fri
    27
    Apr '07

    SHC Monthly Walk in May

    Date: 12th May 2007 (Saturday)

    Park:  Clementi Woods/West Coast Park

    Start Time:  4.30pm
    Meeting point: Bus stop at Clementi Woods Park (West Coast Rd)
    Getting there:  by MRT/BUS

    • Bus No 189:  B Batok Central Interchange or at Clement Ave 2, Clementi MRT Stn).  It is roughly 4 stops from Clement MRT station at Clementi Ave 2.   Alight after Ginza Plaza/Pink overhead bridge.  The bus stop is in front of Clement Woods Park (West Coast Rd)
    • Bus No 51:  From Hougang Central Interchange. Alight after West Bay Resort Condo at Jin Tai Pr Sch before the pink overhead bridge (Ginza Plaza) along West Coast Rd.  Clementi Woods Park is on the opposite side of the road.
    • Bus No 30:  From Bedok Interchange.  Details as in Bus No. 51
    • Bus No 143: From Toa Payoh Interchange.  Details as in Bus No. 51

    Be prepared for long bus ride journey.

    By Car:  Park at West Coast Park (carpark 3) along Westcoast Highway.

    The Walk: Take a stroll at Clementi Woods Park accompanied by wooded ambience trees and natural vegetation. The size of the park is approximately 12 ha. Facilities such as amphitheatre, reflexology footpath, fitness corner, playground, shelters, woodball lawn and viewing tower.  Clementi Woods Park is connected to West Coast Park by West Coast link (Park connector). West Coast Park - Park 1, 2 and 3.

    Standing at the centre of the area 3 is the adventure play area that caters to people of different age groups from toddlers to young adults. This is the heart and most active zone of the West Coast Park. If you like a quiet and peaceful environment, the eastern portion at the area 1 would be a good choice for park users to rest and relax. Facilities: Adventure playground, bicycle distance course, fitness corner, exercise garden (including chess garden, foot reflexology facilities and bird cage trellis), grand lawn, sand play area, marsh garden, bird sanctuary, 15 boat-shaped barbeque pits, tent pitching ground and dog run corner.

    After the walk:  You can enjoy tea/coffee & muffin at McCafe in West Coast Park or walk to the HDB estate opposite Ginza Plaza for dinner. BTW I heard from colleague that Ginza Plaza has been sold and is now closed. Bus 176 runs along West coast Highway (West coast Park).  We can also take this bus to somewhere (?) for dinner.

    Bring along umbrella and water bottle.  See You there!

    cheers!  Veronica Wong emoticon

    Thu
    26
    Apr '07

    I could hve danced all nite

    Venue: St James Powerhouse
    Date: 15 Jun 07, Friday
    Time: 8.30 pm till your feet ache
    Response: Need to gauge no. going, so those interested pls let me know.

    Thanks
    JuneLim
    26 Apr 07

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    Lily Ho - Profile

      

    Here’s my profile :

    Born in 1956, I am a single parent with a teenage daughter.  I was married to a French expatriate and moved with him to Cairo (4 years), Shenyang (4 years), Beijing (2 years) and France (2 years).  Prior to that, I worked and lived in England for 3 years.  My daughter and I returned to Singapore in December 1998 and the long-distance divorce procedure was finalized by 2000.

    I am currently a secretary to the MD of a French MNC.

    I am not much into sports.  In my early 20s, I used to swim 3 times a week, play a little badminton, table tennis and billiard.  I started bowling when I was 15, and for about 2 years, my average score was around 150.  Although I can do some ice-skating and skiing, my only exercise regime these days, is dancing.   I dance 4 to 5 time a week doing line-dancing, social and Latin dances.  (I was a part-time dancer for the People’s Association in my mid 20s performing for National Day and Chin-Gay parades.)  I also enjoy cycling for leisure.

    Unlike Terence, I’m not into cheap and low cost travel because of safety and time factor.  When I was single, I travelled mostly alone either for work or for holidays.  For work, I traveled mainly to Asian countries.  For holidays, I traveled mostly to Europe (I’ve seen more of Europe than my French husband).  After I got married, I travelled only first class because my ex-husband wouldn’t have it any other way.  All in all, I’ve been to 36 countries.

    Food wise, I’m the type who eats to live and not lives to eat.  I’m not fussy with food and will not go out of the way or join a long queue for food like how some of my fellow Singaporeans do.  However, I do pine for certain gourmet food such as caviar, fois gras, couscous, steak tartar, salade gourmande, moules, fruits de mer, tarte flambé, jambonneau, rillettes en baguette and paté de lapin.

    My greatest concern is my daughter – that, I will bring her up well to be a responsible and sensible person, strong in her faith and belief.  So far, she hasn’t given me any cause for worry.

    My primary goal in life – is to be strong in my faith.  My secondary goals, is to be financially independent, fit and healthy, and to remain active for as long as I can.

    I joined SHC since Oct. 2005 (Terence, please correct me if I’m wrong) and joined the first cycling meet in Nov.  There were only 4 of us (Charles Wee, Andrew Yeung, Low Yew Kwong and myself).  Charles added bubbles with remarks on the pictures taken on that day - they were so funny.  I tried to attach these photos of SHC’s first cycling meet here but was not successful.   (Charles, may be you can post those pictures on the SHC website huh?)

    Wed
    25
    Apr '07

    Invitation to Self Development Seminar

    Please email or sms your full name, mobile number & email address to us by Thursday, 26th April if you are joining us. Meet us at the Hotel Lobby by 5.45 pm. The full list of participants’ names will be posted here.

    Robert & Kristy

    98397578

    Invitation to Self Development Seminar

    Date :              27th April 2007 (Friday)

    Time:              6.00 - 8.00 pm

    Venue:            Intercontinental Hotel, Bugis Junction

    Room:            Malacca (Level 3)

    Admission:     Free

    Communicating Effectively Inside & Outside The Organization

    Factors Resulting In The “Execution Gap”, Important Discipline of Execution.

    Sun
    22
    Apr '07

    Social dance

    Hi SHC members

    Ronald & Alice Lai we are new members, would like to get a group of members with partners to take up social dance class in LATIN RUMBA, anyone care to join us.

    REGARDS

    Ronald & Alice Lai

    Fri
    20
    Apr '07

    Terence Seah - profile

    Since I am asking every SilverHairsClub member to write about themselves, I shall start first.

    I am 51, with a 30 years background in newspapers.  Family is in Bangkok.  Most Mon to Fri, I travel within the AsiaPacific.  Sat and Sun, I am in Bangkok.  Try SMS me, if you are around.  That’s why you can hardly find me here in Singapore.  Sorry, if you call me, and I do not pick up your call.  SMS/email excellent way to catch me.

    Sports, I love swimming, lousy at golf, but am crazy enough to want to play, likes sighteeing, loves cheap and low cost travel.  I have not had enough of Thailand, and the rest of Asia.

    Food - I love eating, but hates sugar in my diet.  Whisky is my game, with ice and soda.  Beer, if I am thirsty.  So, I am game for a drink, any time.  You know my contact.

    My greatest concern is loneliness when I retire.  If I can walk, I don’t want to see only 4 walls.  I am a strong supporter of work and play, till I die.  50% of each, at least.

    My dream for SilverHairsClub is to reach a membership of 10,000 by end 2008.  I love seeing SilverHairs being independent, meet regularly, be fluent in internet, pick up regular exercise eg walking, swimming,  and cycling.  I enjoy participating in business discussions, especially small businesses.

    And, if you write to me, on this Post, I shall always respond you, in an individual capacity, not as SilverHairsClub founder.

    So, please write your profile.  We all want to hear from you.

    Terence Seah

    Thu
    19
    Apr '07

    Write a short story about yourself

    Old Posts and comments may be deleted over time.  But, on this website, only your story and profile stays.  Write a bit about yourself, if you have not done so.

    To read about other members, click on Members’ profile.  Dont be shy.  Pick up the courage.

    When you try to Post, the Post will be saved as a Draft.  We will released the Post after moderation.

    Terence Seah

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    Caroline Gee-Profile

    Hi All,
    I am Caroline Gee and has been an SHC member for several months now. Its heartening to note that members encourage and help each other in every step we take. However, I was saddened when I happened to real some old posting where members exchanged unpleasantries. Harsh words kill enthusiasm. I noted that apologies were extended but still the guy got "huntum". Fortunately, he is still the funny man who never say die. Cheers :)
    I lost my husband of 26 years (who had never taken a day of medical leave during his 28 years of work) to cancer in 2003 when I was only 48. I was devastated and cried everyday till I could not see clearly (in every sense of the word). However, my aged mum who lived with us was there for me. Although she was very ill herself, she comforted me and shared my grief. My two older daughters were overseas and my youngest daughter was trying hard to cope with the loss of her beloved "Pops". I realised I was making life miserable for all who loved me. I decided to pull myself together and move on. Sadly though, my mum passed on last October.
    I was a strict mum. Very prim and proper. Things were planned and done like clockwork. Always reminding my children to be good, study hard blah…blah…blah………
    Believe  it or not. I actually made my children read the encyclopedia and study the dictionary. Life must have been boring for them.
    But after losing two loved ones in a short period of time, I look at life differently now. I encourage my children to do the things they like. Follow their heart and chase their dreams. So long as they do not go overboard. I am less uptight and I dont breathe down their neck. They love the new me. My eldest daughter, an investment banker, will be 29 soon. My second daughter who be 23 graduated last year. Found a job in the bank and realised she love singing more than the bank job so she quit and is now training her vocal chords. My "Baby" who will be 17 soon is in JC1.
    Going back to my point. I am not preaching and every word I say comes from the bottom of my heart. Life is unpredictable and sometimes too short. Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves so we cannot dictate to others to do our bidding. I enjoy fun and laughter, peace and joy, and definitely not at other people’s expense. So long as no vulgaraties, expletive language or crude jokes, I am fine. Live and let live, to each his own.
    Something about my likes. I love to bake, cook, sing and dance. Also chit chat (not gossip) over a hot cup of coffee or tea. When I am free, I take orders for my cakes. My specialty is the Carrot Cake (the Ang Moh one). Someday, when time permits, I would like to host a tea party for fellow SHC members. Will keep you posted when the time is right.
    Warmest Regards  :D
    Caroline

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    Free Lunchbox Concert at the Esplanade

    Hi All,

    Please meet at the Lobby outside the Concert Hall at 12.15 pm if you are able to join us.  Lunch (optional) will be at the Food Court at Marina Square.  Free parking at the Esplanade carpark between 12 noon and 2 pm.  Please sms if you are joining us.

    Acoustic Trip, Singapore

    24 Apr 07, Tue, 12.45pm, Concert Hall

    Acoustic Trip is 3-piece acoustic setup that has been wowing audiences at various clubs in Singapore namely Balaclava, Bar Stop, Hard Rock Café and Wala Wala. Born and bred in Philippines and currently based in Singapore, this trio are very influenced by the music from the 80s.

    Take a break this Lunchbox as they pay tribute to America whose hits include Ventura Highway, Sister Golden Hair, The Horse with No Name and Muskrat Love.

    Robert & Kristy Quek

    9839 7576   

     

    Tue
    17
    Apr '07

    Some rules on using this website

    We encourage SilverHairsClub members to use this website.  Please do observe some rules.

    1. This website is strictly for SilverHairsClub members.  Reference to external names of companies, websites, tel numbers, names, email address of persons are not permitted.  Please note SHC is for individuals and not for companies.
    2. Posts or comments with investment messages proclaiming profits/gains would automatically be deleted from the site.
    3. Repeated Posts will not be published.
    4. Any picture attached would be deleted.
    5. SilverHairs entrepreneurs  or business individual fully supported.  Except for direct selling or MLM.
    6. Activities or gatherings claiming to be SHC activities, would be deleted.  Please seek clearance from Terence, prior to publishing the post/comment.
    7. Personal contact information on the website is not recommended.  You may do so at your discretion.

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    Mon
    16
    Apr '07

    Dinner & Live Band Entertainment at Changi Sailing Club

    Date:              19.4.07 (Thursday)
    Time:              7 pm
    Venue:           Changi Sailing Club
                           The following buses go to the depot and Changi Village. 2,  29,  59, 109.
                           Only 29 goes to outside Changi Sailing Club.
    Programme:
    7.00  pm        Dinner could be in a group or individually as the dining area serves both 
                            Eastern as well as Western food.                      
                            However there is a norminal charge for the restaurant. I think it is $2/pax.
                           

    8.45 pm         Entertainment by singer, Ms Zaleha at the Lounge
    10.30 pm      Sayonara
    Note:
    As we have to reserve the Lounge area, please confirm your participation by 17.4.07.
    Only 2 more places left.
    There is no cover charge. The estimated cost is less than $30 per pax.
    Robert Quek

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    MacRichie Reservoir Weekly Social Walks:

    Please register by sms for one or both days or on an adhoc basis.

    Tuesdays      5 pm - 6.15 pm

    Saturdays     9 am - 10.15 am

    Venue:         MacRitchie Reservoir carpark B (outside the Changing Room)

    Note:

    1) Bring along your umbrella or raincoat in case it rains suddenly.

    2) Kindly sms Robert at least two hours before the scheduled time to confirm walk in case of last minute changes for those who register on an adhoc basis.

    Robert & Kristy Quek

    98397578

    Fri
    13
    Apr '07

    Used PCs for SHC members Project

    1st Meeting -
    Date : Sat, 14 Apr 07
    Venue : McDonald Restaurant at Toa Payoh HDB Hub (just outside bus interchange/above mrt)
    Time : 4pm (commence) to 6pm (end)
    Why Here : Free Internet Access and Convenience of coming by bus or mrt

    Agenda :
    1) Form the group and delegate tasks
    2) Coordinate & receive donated hardware
    3) Coordinate & despatch donated hardware
    4) Guided learning (centralised and home)
    5) Repair / maintenance services
    6) Delivery and installation services
    7) Stockup spare parts
    8) Other related issues

    All suggestions are welcome. If you have the time, please come along to join the 1st meeting otherwise, you can email your thoughts to me at lohyks@hotmail.com

    After a long wait, we are going to see the birth of this project. Rain or shine, the meeting is on. So far, I have 4 members confirmed attending (coincidentally, 1st cycling activity also started with 4. In Chinese, it means "yes" and "yes 4 sure"). Although this number is small, it is a good sign that we really want to see it happens.

    Thu
    12
    Apr '07

    MONTHLY WALK - APRIL 07

    Dear Walkists,

    Thanks to those who had responded: via direct emails and on the website…. see you on 14April 07.

    For those who drives – to address your concerns as to where
    to park your cars:

    park at Ghim Moh, near block 12A.    OR 

    The MRT track at Clementi runs along road named: Commonwealth
    Avenue West. 
    Park your car at any carpark nearer to Clementi MRT station, as it will
    be easier for you to find it later – take note of the relevant HDB Block
    #.  I will be able to guide you back
    there.

    Clementi and Ghim Moh are 2 stations away: “Clementi – Dover
    – Buona Vista.

    Alternatively, you may take a bus.  Several buses from Clementi do pass by Ghim
    Moh. However, I believe for most drivers, it will be more complicated for you
    to commute by bus. You know what I mean, no offence   {smile}   

     

    Stay coool  emoticon

     

    Wed
    11
    Apr '07

    Cycling Activity on Sat, 21 Apr 07

    Sat, 21 Apr 07 from 4 p.m. at East Coast Park

    Meet at the rear of McDonald Marine Cove (former East Coast Recreational Park). Rented bicycles are abundantly available at reasonable rates. Activity will not be cancelled even if it rains but will be brought indoor to turn into chitchat session. Rain or shine, we will definitely be there 4 U.  Look forward to seeing you guys.

    Yew Kwong, Lily and Jade

    Tue
    10
    Apr '07

    Weekly Walks at MacRitchie

    Days:     Tuesdays       5 pm - 6.15 pm

                  Saturdays      9 am - 10.15 am

    Venue:    MacRitchie Reservoir carpark B

                   (outside the Changing Room)

     Please register your participation here.

    Note:

    1)   Bring along your umbrella or raincoat in case it rains suddenly.

    2)   Kindly sms me first before coming to confirm walk in case of last minute changes.

    Robert & Kristy Quek

    98397578

    Mon
    9
    Apr '07

    Pet Lovers Community

     Hi members,

    If you know of (i) any interesting stories or events of animals and (ii) wish to communicate between pet lovers in SHC , pls. SHARE them at this post. Thank you.

     

    Sat
    7
    Apr '07

    Teaching English in China

    One of our members Gary Loke is now in Shanghai. He has bravely made the move, and is now teaching in Shanghai.

    We are reviewing opportunities for retired SilverHairsClub members, with a teaching profession to teach in China.

    If you are retired, interested to teach English in Shanghai or other cities in China, please leave your name here. Communications with Gary can be made on this POST.

    Terence Seah