10 Days Guizhou Cultural Tour (Sat 6 – Mon15 Jun)

I am organizing a trip to Guizhou, China. It is a package tour. The details are:

Cost: $1498 (package) + $350 (airport tax) + $50 (tips) = $1898

Flight details: China Southern
CZ 352 06JUN SINCAN 0800/1200 (SIN – Guangzhou)
CZ 3692 06JUN CANKWE 1515/1700 (Guangzhou – Guiyang)
CZ 3691 15JUN KWECAN 1245/1420
CZ 351 15JUN CANSIN 1830/2230

No compulsory shopping trips.

I have picked this package for its comprehensiveness and quality. The cost is slightly higher due to the domestic flights. The tour is conducted in Mandarin. Itinerary in Chinese is available upon request. If you are interested, please register by replying to this post before 31 March if possible. If the itinerary is too small for reading, press the Ctrl key and the + sign key simultaneously to enlarge. To reduce, press the Ctrl key and the – sign key simultaneously.

Moon Wong (EC)

Registration
1. Moon Wong
2. Jane Chua

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When the time comes to spend the day at the DayCare centre

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I have always wondered what I will be doing on most days when I have difficulties in walking, when I am lonely and when I grow old.  My time will come.  But, not yet, I can still walk, I can still work, and I like to work for as long as my legs allow me. Of course, soon or later, I cannot work; but I want to keep myself active, and maybe do some volunteer work.  That’s if I have the money to live through my SilverHairs years.

A couple of days ago, I visited a privately-run  daycare centre in Australia. It has a size of about 400 sqm.  It opens Monday to Friday 10.30am to 3.00 pm.  The Daycare is run by some fulltime staff and some volunteers.  It has a good size kitchen that prepares food and drinks for the elderlies that come to the centre.

The Daycare has a program, with different activities each day eg singing, poetry, crafts, games, magic show, indoor golf, …..  The activities are organised by the full time staff.  The elderlies, all of them, require some help in moving around, and thus not bed-ridden.  The daycare accepts elderlies who are not suffering from contagious diseases, dimentia, and mental illnesses.  They live within a certain distance from the day-care and are picked up by a van driver from their residence. They arrive at the daycare at 10.30am each day, in a specially designed van.

The kitchen services the daycare and cooks the meal of the day, as well as prepares hot beverages and biscuits twice a day. The kitchen is run by a full time staff.  Volunteers assist in the kitchen, serves the elderlies and generally clean up the place after lunch.

While at the daycare, elderlies get to play games, learn a craft, enjoy singing, do some gardening and follow the program of the day.  Many elderlies are lonely and they do not want to stay at home.  Their children prefers they go out, keep active and mix with other friends. At the end of the day, the elderlies are happy, and look forward to meeting other elderlies on other days.

I spoke with the staff of the daycare centre.  The daycare employs some full time paid staff who administrates the centre, organises the activities and the daycare operation which includes picking up the elderlies from and to their homes.  The volunteers help with interacting with the elderlies, keeps the place clean and tidy and other odds and ends. The centre is self funded, and it survives based on collections from the elderlies.  At the end of each day, the centre collects between AUD 25 – 30 from the elderlies.  This includes home-daycare centre transfers, a main meal, two tea-breaks, activities and program as per published schedules, plus a healthy day interacting with other elderlies.

I am not sure if the daycare centre is privately owned or rented. But, I see it as located within a quiet residential community. The daycare pays for maintenance, lightings and water tilities and upkeep of the building.

I am not sure how daycare centres are operated in Singapore; but I see some silver linings in a daycare centre.

  1. There are opportunities for seniors and elderlies to use the services of a privately daycare centre.
  2. Full time seniors get to work and get paid in a daycare centre, not a home or a hospital.
  3. Opportunities for seniors to volunteer some time to interact with elderlies who are lonely, chatty, fun and need someone to talk to.

I think each of us has a different vision of what we will do when we have difficulties walking, cannot leave our homes on our own or meet friends without assisted transport or feel lonely while our children are working to earn a living.  Many of our children would hope we can spend some time outside to get some fresh air, meet our regular friends and have our regular lunch.

Will you go to a Daycare centre and join its activities?

Terence Seah

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SHC Monthly walks

Dear All,

UPDATE ONLY…

If you are not aware,,, for 2015 our monthly walks are on the 1st Saturday/month; unless otherwise advised.

We realized that Good Friday is on 3rd April.  Therefore, for month of April, we will re-scheduled the walk to the following Saturday ie., 11th April. 

Look out for the forthcoming post for the walk soon…………  :)

As this is an EC event, we welcome non-members as well.

Look forward to having you in our walks… ta-ta!

Have a blessed Easter holidays!        :D    :D

ChristinA /the walk team.

Blue Helmet announcements – March 2015

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Some of us are still working in companies that employ us.  We get paid a salary; Very often, we are in the best position to hear of available job opportunities, full time or part-time, in our department or another division in the group.

If your company has a job opportunity and you think that some SilverHairsClub members may be able to apply, feel free to announce the job opportunity here. You may be giving fellow members an opportunity.  Blue Helmet announcements has some simple guidelines.

  1. The job opening should be from your company only.  Positions from other companies are not allowed. This will be treated as paid advertising.
  2. The job should clearly target seniors or is open to seniors over 45.
  3. Feel free to announce the job responsibility, the job location, and any other criteria.
  4. Feel free to put down yours or your company’s email or tel contacts.
  5. Job opportunities relating to politics, sex, race, religion and MLM are not permitted.
  6. Comments or announcements unrelated to Job announcements will be deleted by admin.

So, help your fellow members who are looking for a job.

Terence Seah

 

Coffee Meet on Thursday, 9th April 2015

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Dear all

Time to arrange our next coffee meet.  The next session will be held on 9 April.   Details are as follows:

  • Date:           Thursday, 9th April
  • Time:           2 – 4 pm
  • Venue:         Usual haunt viz: Singpost Building, Paya Lebar (next to the Paya Lebar mrt station), Basement
  • Cuisine:       Just order your own coffee/beverage and food
  • Agenda:       Nil ~just yakking, fellowshipping among kakis present.. No politics, sex, race, religion, direct selling and MLM allowed (shc taboos)

All shc members are welcome to join in this event.  Come and wild away the time if you are a retiree or semi-retired…. don’t stay at home.   Keeping in touch with friends keep dementia, depression and loneliness at bay.  I’m sure you’ll have fun fellowshipping with other members. As the saying goes “No man is an island.”  SHC is like one big family!

Please indicate your interest ASAP by registering here ya?

Thank you & Warm regards,

Gabriella Chua, EO

Registered List:

  1. Gabriella Chua
  2. Loong Say Meng
  3. Jazz Soh
  4. Charles Cher (apps to inform cant attend)
  5. John Chua SC
  6. Lim Tiang Soon
  7. Daniel Chan
  8. Tony Ang
  9. Alice Seah
  10. Ronald Lam
  11. Mega (apps to inform cant attend)
  12. Hew Lee(messaged to inform  cant attend)
  13. Ann Giri
  14. Roland Tong
  15. Jennifer Wu
  16. Peggy Yap
  17. Arthur Yap
  18. Shawn Soh

thanks1  Thank you v much to all who came to support the event this afternoon.  Many of us stayed on until past 5 pm.  Had a good chitchatting session.

Looking forward to meeting you all again next month :-)

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Launching the “Turtle Soup Group”

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1st and 2nd pic – turtle soup

3rd pic ~crocodile meat satay

AndrewK and myself have been considering setting up an exotic food group for some time. We noticed that so far we had only men participants. So, now, we decide to take the group meeting further. We would like to start a “Men’s group” and we will call this group the “Turtle Soup Group”.

Both Andrew and TerenceS will be the group co-administrators. Turtle Soup Group will be open to all SilverHairsClub men, who have Whatsapp in their mobile application. This group has the objective to hunt for exotic food anywhere, meet when we find an accepted place at an agreed date and time.

We will try not to have many detours in our objectives. Essentially, it will be a men’s group.

To keep the group alive and meaningful, all participants must participate and not remain silent for the whole calendar month. Turtle soup members who are not active will be delisted. Participants can also delist themselves from “Turtle Soup Group” anytime.

Participants who have intentions to sell health products, discuss MLM, political issues, are advised to seek other discussion groups. However during “Turtle Soup Group” outings, we will let our hairs down as long as general participants accept.

To join “Turtle Soup Group”, please whatsapp +65 9489 4360 and type “Turtle Soup Group”. Strictly for SilverHairsClub Men members only. This may sound sexists, but we think this may be one way to bring the men out, up and together, via “Turtle Soup”. Of course, we will go out for Bak Kut Teh, crocodile meat or something exotic across the causeway.

Thank you partner AndrewK. Let’s give this a go. And welcome to the “Turtle Soup Group”

Terence Seah and Andrew Koh

 

Mother’s Day Lunch Celebration, 10 May 2015 (Sun), 1200 to 1500

Carnations This value-for-money event, Mother’s Day Lunch Celebration, is open to ALL SHC members – male, female, single, married, mother or non-mother.  It is hosted by the Civil Service Club (CSC) and I will be booking 3 tables (30 seats) at member’s guest rate, $368 per table.

  • Date:    10 May 2015 (Sun)           Time:   1200 to 1500
  • Venue:  Qian Xi (Farrer Park) Restaurant @CSC Club
  • Address: 60 Tessensohn Road, Singapore 217664

Nearest MRT: NE line, Farrer Park (Exit B)  About 5-7 minutes’ walk to CSC.  For a clearer view, please click on the map.   jpeg csc_map jpeg

8-COURSE LUNCH

  1. Cold Dish Combination
  2. Crab Meat Fish Maw Soup
  3. Crispy Roasted Chicken
  4. Fried Prawns with salted egg yolks
  5. Nonya Style Steam Sea Bass
  6. Braised Mushrooms with Broccoli
  7. Seafood Fried Noodles
  8. Refreshing Lemon Grass Jelly Dessert

PROGRAMME

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  • Goodie bag for mothers and
  • A chance to be pampered by a make-up artist, manicurist or hair-stylist for mothers only.  (Pre-registration required. Time slot allocation is subject to availability.)

CLOSING DATE: 31 March 2015, Tue 1000 or whichever comes first.

PAYMENT:  Please transfer funds to POSB Savings A/c:  113-04356-3

RATE $36.80 per person

Seat confirmation is based on payment received.  Mothers, if you like to be pampered at the pre-event segment, please indicate your choice during registration. Will submit only 1 namelist to the organisers as a group.

Event Co-ordinator:  May Woo

REGISTRATIONRegistration is now closed (31 Mar 2015 @1430)

2 seats available as at 13 April 2015  Seats taken 14/4/15

  1. Vacant – Keen to join us?
  2. Vacant Kindly register and make payment ASAP. Thank you

Susan CH Tan – unable to join (28/3)

  1. Gingko Tay       (Pd – 11/3)
  2. Winnie Tan       (Pd – 12/3)
  3. Eliza Leong      (Pd – 16/3)
  4. Cecilia Yeo       (Pd – 16/3)
  5. Maria Tan         (Pd – 13/3)
  6. Linda Chang     (Pd – 13/3)
  7. Joan Ang           (Pd – 13/3)
  8. Susan SW Tan (Pd – 13/3)
  9. Jane Ong          (Pd – 13/3)
  10. Ivy Low              (Pd – 13/3)
  11. Eyvonne Chew (Pd – 14/3)
  12. Julie Guan         (Pd – 14/3)
  13. Jacqueline Wong (Pd – 31/3)
  14. Veronique Lee   (Pd – 31/3)
  15. Alyn Lee            (Pd – 31/3)
  16. May Woo, EC   (Pd – 31/3)
  17. 4 seats taken May Woo (Pd – 31/3)
  18. May Woo           (Pd – 31/3)
  19. Joan Ang           (Pd – 16/4)
  20. Joan Ang           (Pd – 16/4)

21. All new registrations will be put on hold till enough people to form a table.  Too late for new table booking as at 13 April 2015.

Different folks different strokes.

We are the product of the choices we made during our journey through life. Some would have more regrets to share than happiness. We blame our parents, our lack of education or circumstances why we are a failure.

If you have a situation in life where no answer is available , let’s share it here and see if we can get some expert opinions.

Let’s me start by enacting a real life situation. A close friend of mine age 63 met a fair lady from Myanmar, she was 42, divorced and have a 25 years son who is working. She run a beauty saloon with a younger sister and stay in her own 4 storey terrace house.  After a three months whirlwind encounter, she ask him to marry her. My friend was ecstatic, she was sexy and young and this may be a golden opportunity. My advice to him was to be wary, maybe she just using you to get a better life here. You never know that once you sign the dotted line, you will start bleeding and never to recover.

Wat is your take?

Desperate Dan.

RSVP Flag Day 2015

I am participating in the RSVP fundraising event.  RSVP. the Organisation of Senior Volunteers successfully balloted for a fundraising event, Flag Day 2015.

Date: Sat 4 April 2015
Time: 9.30am – 5.30 pm

I am appealing for SHC members to be Flag Day bearers and assist with island-wide street collection. Time -slots and collection centres will be worked out later. Please indicate your interest to help out by writing your name in the list below:

1. Joan Wong (EC)
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9.
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Joan Wong

March 2015 Online Fleamart

flea3  flea1  flea2This online flea mart site is up again, and available to members with extra items or unwanted stuffs in the house.  Now that CNY is over, maybe we do not have a lot of stuffs at home.  But, if you do, you can sell or give away your stuffs here.

Guidelines

  1. Each advertisement not longer than 10 lines.
  2. Can be stuffs from your wardrobe or your personal skills.  No Corporate items.
  3. MLM and Email address collecting for other purposes not permitted.
  4. If you are looking for something which you think some members may have, please ask for it here.
  5. Pictures of item and services are allowed.  Simply start a comment here, and insert your pictures.  URLs are not permitted.
  6. If unsure, please whatsapp +6594894360 or email admin@silverhairsclub.com.

Terence Seah

March 2015 – Share with us what you have been doing in the last 30 years

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Gatherings are a great way to make friends. We chat with one another, and sometimes we find our old schoolmates, members who had worked in similar industries and someone whom we may be interested to know further.

fun3    I like to introduce another way for all members to meet new and more friends. Each month, we will start a new Post titled “Share with us your last 30 years”. Under this Post, all members can share what you have been doing in the last 30 years. Approx 5-10 paragraphs. You can share your working history, your hobbies, your loves, your overseas postings, your school, college and university life, your promotions, etc.

I am sure other members may be able or want to link up with you.

Political, sexual, religious, racial and MLM content may be moderated.

Let start this activity with a posting for Mar 2015.

Terence Seah

Cancer incidence with ageing population . 50% will get cancer.

Our Prime Minister has recently gone for his prostate cancer surgery. He is another example of how the elderly is more easily inflicted with cancer.
If he can get cancer twice in his life time what are our chance ??

I have reviewed and heavily edited a very thorough research paper done in UK to be of interest, relevance and wake up call for us SHC members

One in two people will develop cancer at some point in their lives , according to the latest forecast.

There will “never be one single magic bullet” to cure all cancers and age is the biggest risk factor for most forms of the disease.

The new figure, which replaces the previous of one in three, is the most accurate forecast to date from Cancer Research UK .

Prevention must also play a role in the effort required to reduce the impact of the disease in coming decades, the charity said.

But as more people benefit from improved healthcare and longer life expectancy, the number of cancer cases is expected to rise.

This new research estimating lifetime risk replaces the previous figure, calculated using a different method, which predicted that more than one in three people would develop cancer at some point in their lives.

The charity said age is the biggest risk factor for most cancers, and the increase in lifetime risk is primarily because more people are surviving into old age, when cancer is more common.

The lifetime cancer risk for women (47.55%) is lower than that of men (53.5%), while the combined lifetime risk is 50.5%.

According to the previous method of calculation, i n 1980 the combined risk was 27.2%, in 1990 it was 32.7%, in 2000 it was 37.1% and in 2010 it was 41.8%. The charity believes that the old method of calculation underestimated the risk.

Lifetime cancer risk is also expected to increase further in the future.

While the biggest risk factor is age, other lifestyle factors include smoking, obesity, diet, tanning and sunburn, overdiagnosis, lack of exercise and child-bearing patterns.

Just over a quarter of all deaths are caused by cancer, so while one in two people will develop cancer at some point, it is still believed that around one in four people will die from cancer.

We’re living longer and that means we’re more likely to develop a range of age-related health issues.

How near a cure for cancer is ?, The research said: “There will never be one single magic bullet that treats … cures all cancers. I just don’t … I cannot foresee a time when that’s going to be the case. But already we’re able to cure a number of cancers now.”

There are more than 200 different types of cancers and they are all quite different.

The single biggest thing that affects whether a patient is cured is whether their disease is caught early enough..

Too many cancers are diagnosed very late and once they’re more advanced it becomes much harder to cure. We can treat them, we can extend life but it becomes much harder to cure if we’re catching the cancers very late,”

“Cancer is primarily a disease of old age, with more than 60% of all cases diagnosed in people aged over 65. If people live long enough then most will get cancer at some point.”

Breast cancer is the most common form in women, prostate cancer is the most common form in men, and bowel cancer and lung cancer are common in both sexes.

Cases of cancer are likely to rise with an ageing population – so the focus is on earlier diagnosis, improving care and tackling preventable cancer.

Another separate study said 30% of cancer happen to the most fit and healthy person. This sadly is term “biological badluck” due to healthy cell mutation

Still we should be in control of the 70%. Hope you find this article useful.

Leon

Coffee Chat on Thursday, 12 March

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Hello friends

How time flies!  Time to arrange for our next coffee chat.  Details are as follows:

  • Date:          Thursday, 12 March
  • Time:          2 – 4 pm
  • Venue:        Paya Lebar Singpost Building, Food court located at B1 of building (next to the Paya Lebar mrt station)
  • Cuisine:      Just order your own food/coffee/dessert from the Kopitiam (discount given with a Kopitiam card)
  • Agenda:       Nil…. can talk, joke and have fun

This is a monthly gathering and has been going on for more than a year.  Come and wild away the time… fellowship and camaderie among active agers will keep dementia/depression and loneliness at bay ~

I would appreciate if you could reply ASAP.

Cheers and hope to see as many of you as possible.

Gabriella Chua, EO

Registration List:

  1. Gabriella Chua (bringing some signature pineapple bak kwa from the famous shop ~ Kim Peng Hiang)
  2. Kenneth Tan 
  3. Veronique Lee
  4. Joe Choo
  5. Alice Tan
  6. Charles Cher (bringing his signature goreng pisang rajah)
  7. Amy Ko
  8. Charles Wee
  9. Jazz Soh
  10. Jennifer Wu
  11. John Chua S C
  12. Loong Say Meng
  13. Grace Ng
  14. Alice Seah
  15. Catherine Yeo
  16. Peng Peng
  17. Peter Loo
  18. SS James
  19. A Koh
  20. Robert Ong
  21. Roland Tong
  22. Steven Chan
  23. Mega
  24. Gingko
  25. Pat Oei
  26. Richard Kwok
  27. William Wee
  28. Steven Low
  29. Ooi Chong Hock
  30. Tony Ang
  31. Richard Lean
  32. + 1 or 2 non-members  who will be applying for membership soon (One of them, Daniel Wong is now a member of SHC)
Quotable Quotes (click on the pictures for the big view)

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Cruise N Fly Holidays 22nd March to 29th ( or shorter) March 2015

The Iternery is as follow :

A. Take a cruise from Singapore on 22nd March 2015 at ard 5.00 pm

B. The cruise will land at Langkawi 23rd 8.00 am / Penang 24th 4.00pm

C. If depart at Langkawi ( One cabin night charge ) – we shall arrange a coach to tour  langkawi , take a ferry across to tour Perlis and Kedah , and stay in Kedah for 1 night.

D. Following the morning breakfast, we head for Penang by the New Bridge. Stay in Penang for 2 to 3 nights. While in Peang , we shall coach south by OLD bridge to Ipoh morning and back to Penang to sleep.

E. We shall fly back to Singapore from Penang

OR

B1. Depart at Penang ( 2 carbin night charges ) . Stay 2 nights in Penang. Coach North to Perlis/Kedah in the morning and returning to Penang to sleep.

c1 : Coach south to Ipoh and Genting and fly back from Kuala Lumpur to Singapore ( Note : Fare from Penang/KL cost the same )

Estimate Cost Per person $ 450 to $ 500 +/- inclusive Cruise/Air ticket/Coaches , accommodation and all meals. Accounts of expenses will be transparent.

Details iterneries will be provide at a later date after viewing the response. Max 40 persons

Assure you will not be dull during this trip. Please express your interest ASAP.

Tony Ang

Sungei Rengit Revisit: 21/22 March 2015

Hi all.
We are going to revisit Sungei Rengit before it becomes and transformed into a Petroleum Hub.

Our journey begins from Changi Point Ferry Terminal to Tg Pengelih jetty. It is about 18km from jetty to Sungei Rengit town.

The area’s landscape is changing rapidly, the tranquility scenery is fast disappearing, very soon the town may also be demolished.

This is a 2D1N event (21-22 Mar 2015)

Meet : Changi Village hawker center
Date : 21 Mar 2015.
Time : 0800 hrs.
Cycling speed : leisure(10-15kph)
Rental bike cost : Sgd 11-12 per day.
Ferry : Sgd 13-15 one way.
Hotel :2 to a room @MYR 168.

closing date : 07 Mar 2015.

Going :
1. Douglas
2. Charles Chua
3. Lim TS

Posted in Activities outdoors, Cycling, Forum

Kiasu and the Paper Rush

Last Friday there was news about parents’ anxiety over the PSLE and that was the reason MOE decided to have actual past PSLE Exam Papers (four subjects) printed to  give the anxious parents an idea of the PSLE standard. It also said the Papers would go on sale the next day (Saturday).

I mentally made a note to buy them on Tues (today). However, on Saturday, all the Papers sold out, island-wide! Why so kiasu, I thought. The PSLE is in October –no need to start practising the Papers so early.

This morning  I went to a big bookshop to ask about the Papers. They were out of stock! I asked about new stocks and the sales person said tomorrow coming. I quickly told him I wanted to reserve the 4 sets of Papers and to pre-pay for them. I was afraid they might all be snapped up before I arrived.  He said cannot reserve but can leave contact number so the staff could inform me when the new batch of the Papers arrived. I wrote my contact on a piece of paper and saw him pin it among numerous pieces on the board. Wah, so many people also wanted to be informed!

I went home,  planning how I could be ready to dash out to the bookshop the moment I got the alert.   Then I realized I had been acting kiasu myself. Lol!

kiasuThe Paper Rush…

2-Days Movie Making Course (11/3 & 12/3)

I am organizing another 2-sessions course on Movie Making using Microsoft Windows Movie Maker program. It will be on 11/3 & 12/3 (Wednesday & Thursday) from 2PM to 5PM. The course can only accept a maximum of six participants. I already have three registered and can take in another two or three more.

Those interested are requested to attend a briefing and also to confirm in writing that you are coming and would like to be registered. Details of the briefing session are as follows:

Date: 07-03-2015 (Saturday)
Time: 3PM to 5PM
Venue: City Hall Food Court (MRT – City Hall)
Meeting Place: Just outside ticket gates @ City Hall MRT
We will start walking to food court @ 3.05PM.

hewlee (EC)

Those registered coming:
1) registered
2) registered
3) registered
4) Doreen Tay
5) Priscilla Wee
Registration is now CLOSED.

 

Our CPF; not your CPF

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One of the most current affairs stories today is “Our CPF”.  It’s about letting Singaporeans decide how much we need during our retirement. I think it is good we have a discussion here. Perhaps you know everything; but some of us have questions and comments.

If you have questions, do ask; and anyone can respond.  If you have comments, great.  Keep your response short, so we enjoy and understand you better. Please keep short your response to 1-3 paragraphs.  I have questions too.

In the case or we turning 55 in 2016, and the options are:

  1. Basic retirement sum (with property):  A monthly payout of $650 – 700 for life, for basic needs.
  2. Full retirement sum (without property): A monthly payout of $1,200 – 1,300 for life, for basic needs.
  3. Enhanced retirement sum $241,500:  A monthly payout of $1,750 – 1,900 for life, if we choose to put more in the retirement account.

If you wish to rate your thoughts and share it with fellow members, use the scale of 1-10 (10 is excellent), avoid using I dont like it or it is a good idea.

Please share your thoughts.

Terence Seah

 

March 2015 monthly gathering – coming up

polaroid-110612  febmtg1  febmtg4 We are now looking at March 2015 monthly gathering.  Our favourite was Hans at Upper Pickering; but that was closed.  But, the thinking process goes on.  Jayleen Hotel is currently being explored but this will very much depend on the EO.

Victor Khor will likely be the EO for the March 2015 monthly gathering. Let’s keep in touch until Victor has it all planned up.

Please share your suggestions and thots here.

Terence Seah

 

Some news are better not known; can we as a club do something to help ourselves?

eating4   eating 3    Do you sometimes think that the SilverHairsClub is all about fun?  And that most of our activities center around eating, eating, dancing, keeping fit, travel and enjoying the world.  And that all these activities are part of getting old.

Then, there are times when among us, members pass away; some quietly, and some, we rather not know about it.  Then, there are others who suddenly suffer a stroke, diagnosed for cancer, or met with an accident;  all of which affect painfully our fellow members and their families.  For these unfortunate members, if they have many close fellow members as friends, they get to receive moral support and help.  For the quieter ones, we forget about them over time.

Sometimes, not knowing any bad news is better.  We already have a lot of our own personal problems.  Many of us are short of time, dont have all the money in the world and too many things to worry about.

What do you think? Perhaps we can do something small.  Just thinking aloud, share some of your thoughts.

Terence Seah

 

January 2015 Online Fleamart

This online flea mart site is up again, and available to members with extra items or unwanted stuffs in the house.  Do make full use of it.   Chinese New Year is here.  The earlier you indicate what you dont want, the earlier someone might want to pick it up.

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 Guidelines

1. Each advertisement not longer than 10 lines.

2.  Members can advertise your furniture, especially when you have just bought a new one. Maybe some pots and pans, a TV or music hifi, a floor mat, a fan, a clock, a dress or pair of pants, since you have noticed it no longer fits you. Perhaps, a mattress, some handbags, a guitar, or an unused bicycle. You can sell or you can give away free.

3. Members can advertise dress alteration, plumbing, cooking, new year goodies, cake making, bak chang sale, care services, apartment for rent, car for sale, etc.  Aiyoh, up to your imagination.  Personal skills like dressmaking, clothes alteration,  repairing / mending/fixing… Personal items from your storeroom, below your bed, they are all welcome.

4. MLM and Email address collecting for other purposes not permitted.

5.  Corporate items and services cannot be advertised here, on this online fleamart.  Please contact admin@silverhairsclub.com for corporate membership.

6.  If you are looking for something which you think some members may have, please ask for it here.

7.  Pictures of item and services are allowed.  Simply start a comment here, and insert your pictures.  URLs are not permitted.

Terence Seah

Mthly walk: 07Feb-Scenic waterfront, a wildlife sanctuary

Date: Saturday, 07th February 2015 (ie., 1st Saturday/month)

Start Time: 3pm sharp!! (due to constrains, must be punctual)

Duration: approx 3.5hrs

Meeting Point: Kranji MRT, entrance to “KopiTiam”.

ECs: ChristinA Chan & Charles Wee.

We are back for an exciting adventure… Get up close to wildlife!

I have waited for several years for a better access to our largest
mangrove forest, 130 hectares (about 130 football fields) in
addition another 31-hectares of rich mangrove and coastal forests.

Hopefully, you will chance upon a baby frog hopping along the paths
(I missed to capture a shot) or a monitor lizard basking in the sun!
Do have your camera ready to take the unexpected encounters. hehe

Please bring along a snack or fruit for the extra “energy boost”!

This walk might end past norm dinner hour… we shall play by ear.

Important:
Wear comfortable walking/covered shoes, if possible bring
a small torchlight, drinking water, insect repellent, hat/cap.

If you encounter wildlife, back away slowly/quietly!
Never turn&run!

Walk Team ECs: Alice Seah, Azhari Cuttilan, Charles Wee,
Jeffrey Lim, Mary Tan, Serene Low, Veronica Wong
and I, ChristinA Chan, signing off….

Please register soonest, cut-off date: 5th February

1. ChristinA Chan
2. Charles Wee
3. Gabriella Chua
4. Alice Tan
5. Ron Teo
6. Margaret Chua
7. Eddy Lee
8. Azhari Cuttilan
9. Susan Tan
10. James Tan
11. Pauline Chew
12. Jane Chua
13. Alice Seah
14. Serene Low
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A Slow & Tedious Chore

Uncluttering is a difficult task for hoarders. It often takes two or three rounds before the ‘junk’ finally leaves the house. I think it is because uncluttering for the hoarder is an emotional thing.

In the first round of uncluttering an area in the cluttered, disorganized storeroom, a lot of white elephants did not leave the house. The hoarder threw one bag of stuff out and looked at the storeroom. Oh no. After more than an hour of uncluttering, the storeroom looked no difference – still too cluttered. The hoarder felt a little desperate …how to rid the rest of the house of clutter at this rate?

After a day or two, the hoarder, trying to be practical, ruthlessly threw out two more bags of the ‘junk’ he had cleared in the first round of uncluttering. And then worked like a beaver at uncluttering  another part of the junk-full storeroom, struggling hard to overcome the reluctance to throw out his ‘beloved junk’!

Uncluttering is a slow and tedious chore!

Hmmm…a  related story:

More than twenty years ago, a big fire razed a row of double- storey shop houses near the former Newton Circle, to the ground. My friend was at work when her room went up in smoke. All the victims of the fire had only the shirt on their back – nothing else. The next day when the rubble had cooled down, the victims went back to look for their jewellery which did not melt.

The govt. gave them priority in applying for new personal documents and allocated them new flats. My friend and her relatives got flats near Upper Aljunied Road.

WE always sympathized with our friend for losing all her belongings in the fire and she was also feeling miserable, but – a few years later, she said to me it was good that all her clutter went up in smoke! She appreciated the chance to live in her new place without any old clutter! Is this not a little irony in life? …

I sometimes think of a fire when I’m having a difficult time uncluttering. Lol!

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Our trip to Kerala is confirmed for 19 – 24 Feb 2015

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This has been a long awaited trip to Kerala, located at the Southern most tip of India.  Here are some pictures to tempt you to come. It’s very countryside, coconut trees, beaches, boats, winding roads, bananas, mangoes, massages, herbs, fishing villages, and Kerala food which is very unlikely the Indian food we get in Little India.

Pictures: Click here.

  1. Date:  19 – 24 Feb 2015.
  2. Flights:  we shall fly Sin/Cochin and Travandrum/Sin.  Altho there are many combinations.
  3. Mode of transport (internal):  Jeep or mini coach.
  4. Schedule:  We wont have a schedule, as this is not peak period. But we will travel from town to cities.  We start at Cochin and ends at Travandrum, capital city of Kerala.  We will only travel at night.
  5. What not to expect:  Kerala is not Singapore. It’s all about culture, traditions and scenary.  With me, you are not likely to enjoy 4-5 star dining.  Most nights, we will stay in 3-4 star hotels.  The only thing that may be comfortable is transport, altho you are likely to hit your head against the roof of the jeap with bumpy roads.  Cockcroaches are about to mature, and they are now 2 months old.
  6. Food – you bet most of it will be Indian and Kerala food, altho most of what you see locally in Singapore will be available. Please do not expect Chinese food, Bring some packets of instant noods, if you are really unable to eat Indian food, which is not chilly hot, but have a lot of spices.  Water – Kerala is one of the cleanest state in terms of hygience. Bottled water is easily available. But, we shall keep our eyes open for fresh vegetable salads and some street food.  Maybe the last day, we can have a down pour.
  7. Visa – Now, Singapore need a visa.
  8. Cost:  I cannot firm a number, altho I know it will not cost a bomb. Hotels, food, transport, driver, tips.  I would ask you budget USD 80 a day, altho I think it will be more like USD 60 per day.  Flight excluded.
  9. Language – Kerala has one of the best English speaking population. In fact, many speak British English.
  10. Trip is confirmed.  Please keep these dates if you are able to go. Please have +6594894360 in your Whatsapp. I am in Bkk for almost two weeks. Communication via Whatsapp in our group will start Monday.  If you like to join the Whatsapp group, please register here.

Register here.

  1. Terence Seah
  2. Ann Giri (keen to go)
  3. Moon (very keen to go)
  4. Freda Lim (join chat grp only)
  5. Maria Tan (join chat grp only)

 

 

CNY LOHEI


Dear friends

We, the same team as last year are going to hold another lohei gathering.
Date: 28 Feb 2015 (Sat)
Time: 14.30-22.00 (tentative, depends on available slots)
Place: Parc Oasis, Condominium. 55 Jurong East Ave 1(tentative, depends on availability)
MARBELLA CONDOMINIUM
33 Mount Sinai Rise S(276954) (about 200 meter from Dover MRT
or 7-10 mins walk)

POSB Saving Account : 038-02874-0

Cost:$28/pax (include high tea,dinner, yu sheng, million $$ ang pao, bingo tickets)

Program: bingo, bun luck, lohei +makan2, chat2, lucky draw

As we can only book the venue 1 month in advance please indicate your interest here by 27th January for us to gauge the interest. we will take in 50pax first. Lets repeat the fun!See you! REGISTRATION N PAYMENT BY 5TH 12th FEB OR 48 SEATS ARE FILLED WHICHEVER COME FIRST.

The BFSTAMP (Bira Frisna Susan Theresa Ann May Peggy)
REGISTRATION

1.Bira (committee member)-paid
2. Frisna (EO) – paid
3.Susan C H (com mbr)-paid
4. Theresa (com mbr)-can’t join party
5. Anne Lim (com mbr)-paid
6.May Woo (com mbr)-can’t join party
7. Peggy Yap (com mbr)-paid

8. Maggie Teo (paid)
9. Albert Tan (paid)
10. Lillian Teo (pd)
11. Lam H T (pd)
12. Bee Gek (pd)
13. Susan SW Tan (paid)
14.Karen Phoo (paid)
15. Irene PohBARBARA ONG (pd)
16. Marge Tian(pd)
17.Gingko (paid)
18.Eyvonne Chew (paid)
19.Bobby (pd)
20.Richard Wong(paid)
21.Alice Seah (pd)
22.Christina Chan (pd)
23.Grace Kang (pd)
24.Shawn Soh (pd)
25.Maureen Lee (pd)
26.Dan Huang (pd)
27.Karen Thio + Wati(pd)
28.Lily Lim (pd)
29.Yatsing SALLY KANG – paid
30.Arthur Yap (paid)
31.Charles Wee (pd)
32.Jennifer Leong(paid)
33. Winnie Tan(paid)
34. Joan Ang(paid)
35. Rosalind Lee SOCKIE (paid)
36. Lydia Chin (pd)
37. Teresa Lee (pd)
38. K F Lee(pd)
39. Christina Yeo (pd)
40. J J Wong (paid)
41. David Leong (paid)
42. ALice Tan (paid)
43. Pauline Khoo (paid)
44. Moon Wong (paid)
45. Freda Lim (paid)
46. Leon
47. Wendy
48.

Sushi Making Class – March 7,2015 (Saturday)

This is an opportunity for those who want to try their hands at making sushi.

Venue: Sushi King KSL City ,  Johore Bahru.

Cost: $20.00 for Bento Lunch and Class fees.

Please make payment to Susan Tan’s account: 102-15222-0 Posb Savings.

Closing date: February 22nd, 2015.

Itinerary:

9.00am      Meet at Kranji MRT Station.

10.00am       Sushi Making Class – A competition will be held and prizes to be given.       Attendance certificate will be presented to you. All will receive a goodies bag.

12.00pm       Bento Lunch (Free)

2.00pm       Shopping/Massage at your own cost

4.00pm       Back to Singapore or overnight trip to Desaru.

EO,  Dan.

Those coming:

  1. Dan (Going overnight trip to Desaru)
  2. Alice Yap (paid)
  3. Susan Tan (paid)
  4. Susan SW Tan (paid)
  5. Cat Yeo (not coming)
  6. Yew Kwong?
  7. Grace Kang (paid)
  8. Shawn Soh?
  9. Jane Ong (paid)
  10. Daisy Phua (not coming)
  11. LK Ong (Driver for Desaru trip) – paid.
  12. Tan Poh Heng (joining Desaru trip) -paid.
  13. Ivy Low (paid)
  14. Karen Phoo (paid)
  15. Winnie Tan (paid)

 

 

Airline Safety Rankings -2015

…according to Jet Airliner Crash Data Evaluation Centre (JACDEC)

I was dismayed to find that SQ is not among the top 12 safe airlines!  SQ has got one of the world’s youngest fleet and yet…even little-heard-of airlines like Hainan and JetBlue made it to the top 12.

Here are the rankings of the top 12 airliners out of 60 for the safest airline for 2015 according to JACDEC.

1stplace – Cathay Pacific             6th – Air New Zealand        11th – All Nippon

2nd – Emirates                                  7th – Qantas                         12th – Lufthansa

3rd – Eva Airlines                           8th – Hainan

4th – Air Canada                             9th – JetBlue

5th – KLM                                       10th – Etihad

Malaysia Airlines fell to 57th (From 34th last year) because of its two major air disasters.

*Just sharing info and reflecting on SQ…

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Monthly Gathering for February at Jayleen Hotel – Friday 6 February 2015

This gathering will be held at Jayleen Hotel, 42 Carpenter Street.

Nearest MRT Station: Raffles or Clarke Quay

Big public car park in front of the hotel

  • Date: Friday 6 February 2015
  • Time: 6pm to 9pm
  • Price: $11 per person (inclusive of mini buffet and free flow of tea/coffee and soft drinks)

Please transfer the amount to POSB Savings  Account No. 137-13046-7

Once the money is transferred, please indicate the date of transfer, the amount and the transaction reference in this forum for tracking purpose.

Please register early as there will be a cap on the number of pax due to space constraint.

Only those who have registered and paid up will be treated as confirmed registration. Sorry, no walk in is allowed.

Please bring along your name tag.

Judy Lim

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Music will be provided for your dancing pleasure after dinner.

Program:

6pm – Drinks and getting to know you.

7pm – 7.30 pm –  Dinner is served

7.30pm – Dancing start. 

9pm – Function end.

After the event, those interested can join me to Chinatown for jalan jalan to soak in the festive mood and to do CNY shopping.

REGISTRATION CLOSE ON 2 FEBRUARY 2015 OR ON REACHING 45 PAX

Those coming

  1. Judy Lim (EO)
  2. Jazz Soh (Pd)
  3. Andrew Koh (Pd)
  4. Douglas Chan (Pd)
  5. Alice Yap (Pd)
  6. Bira (Pd)
  7. Lily Ho (Pd)
  8. Rina Tan (Pd)
  9. SS James (Pd)
  10. Robert Ong (Pd)
  11. Ann Lim (Pd)
  12. Ah Nee  Karen Thio (Pd)
  13. Peng Peng   Jane Tan (Pd)
  14. Ronald Lam (Pd)
  15. Catherine Koh (Pd)
  16. Bessie Lam (Pd)
  17. Lina Tan (Pd)
  18. Lai Fong (Pd)
  19. Gabriella Chua (Pd)
  20. Veronique Lee (Pd)
  21. Joe Choo (Pd)
  22. Ronald Lee (Pd)
  23. Leon Lau (Pd)
  24. Theresa Seow (Pd)
  25. Lillian Teo (Pd)
  26. Myra Chia (Pd)
  27. Moon Wong (Pd)
  28. Alice Tan (Pd)
  29. Philip Wee (Pd)
  30. Priscilla Wee (Pd)
  31. Lam Hoy Tzee (Pd)
  32. Bee Gek (Pd)
  33. Andrew SP (Pd)
  34. Thomas Loh (Pd)
  35. Eyvonne Chew (Pd)
  36. Joan Ang (Pd)
  37. Jway (Pd)
  38. Yat Sing (Pd)
  39. Malyne Suen (Pd)
  40. Magdalene Phey (Pd)
  41. Jonathan Ong (Pd)
  42. Eileen Ong (Pd)
  43. Bobby Bok John Howe (Pd)
  44. Jenny Lee (Pd)
  45. Choy Kum Weng (Pd)

REGISTRATION CLOSED

 

 

 

 

 
 
 
 
 

 

Coffee Chat on Thursday, 12 February from 2 – 4 pm

 

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Hello everyone

It’s time for our next coffee club session.  It will be held on Thursday, 12 February.  Details are as follows:

  • Date:         Thursday, 12 Feb
  • Time:          2 – 4 pm
  • Venue:        Our usual coffee club haunt ~ Singpost Food Court next to the  Paya Lebar mrt station
  • F & B:          All types of dishes/beverages/desserts available at this Food Court .. 10% discount  for payment with Kopitiam card .. just order your own food and drinks
  • Agenda:       None ~ just coffee chat and detressing

We may have a singalong accompanied by some ukulele strumming.  So do come along and wild away the afternoon, especially for the retirees and semi-retired.  Friendship is very important at this stage of our life.  Fellowshipping will keep dementia at bay and is also a good way of preventing one from depression and loneliness.  Just come out from the ’empty nest’ and enjoy with other active agers.  Would appreciate if you could indicate your interest ASAP.     :-)

Warm regards,

Gabriella Chua, EO

Those coming:

  1. Gabriella Chua
  2. Alice Tan
  3. Charles Cher
  4. Jazz Soh
  5. John Chua SC
  6. Amy Ko
  7. Veronique Lee
  8. Joe Choo
  9. Alice Seah
  10. Roland Tong (see comments….)
  11. Lim Tiang Soon
  12. Jennifer Wu
  13. Ann Boey
  14. Kenneth Tan
  15. Karen Phoo
  16. Frank Kaw

REGISTRATION IS CLOSED

 

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“I choose to make the rest of my life the best of my life.”

“We cannot change the cards we are dealt.  Just how to play the hand.”

“Some people aren’t satisfied until they sabotage someone else’s happiness.  Be careful who you trust, not everyone who smiles at you is your friend.”

”No matter how good a person you are, there will always be someone criticizing you.”

”Life is too short to worry about what others say or think about you. So, HAVE FUN and give them something to talk about.”

 

31Jan2015- Nostalgic Ride to Pengerang – cancelled.

Hi cyclists.

All cyclists are invited to participate in this nostalgic cycling event from Tg Pengelih jetty to Sungei Rengit town before it becomes a petroleum hub.

The area’s landscape is rapidly changing, the tranquility scenery is fast disappearing, very soon the town may also be demolished.

This is a 2D1N event (31Jan-01 Feb 15)

Meet : Changi Village hawker center
Date : 31 Jan 2015.
Time : 0800 hrs.
Cycling speed : leisure.
Rental bike : Sgd 11-12 per day.
Ferry : Sgd 13-15 one way.
Hotel :2 to a room @MYR 168.

closing date : 23 Jan 2015.

Going :
1. Douglas