My First Attempt as VJ

Hello All Members,
I hope by now, some of you will notice that there is a change of song which is my first attempt as a VJ today.  I had particularly chosen this song "Rainy Days Mondays" from The Carpenters as it is really raining dogs and cats today.  And today also so happened to be Monday…

I had always been a great fan of The Carpenters since my Secondary school days, are you also.  Yesterday once more, Mr Postman, Top of the World and We had just begun are my favorites.emoticon

Today, eventhough it was raining all day but I still need to get out from home running errands after errands as requested by parents.  Given the fact that I don’t like to carry umbrella, so you can imagine that I was either running or standing at one corner hoping that the rain will stop or at least less downpour so that I can start running again.  emoticon 

Want to have a special song dedication, or request of song for any reasons, please free feel to let me know here, I will try to accommodate as much as I could.  emoticon

Cheers… Dolly

Have you ever got stuck underground in a train?

Early this week, I was stucked underground while in the circle line, at NEX.  I thought it was an exciting happening, as I had never got stucked while taking the train.

Well, this evening, I was stucked again, but this time, somewhere underground near Dhoby Ghaut station.  Not too sure, what’s the cause for the train stopping along the tracks; but again, it was an exciting happening.  I watch the world go round.  First, the aircon was giving out warm stale air.  Only emergency lights were on. Then, there was announcements that the there was a fault, and everybody were advised not to be alarmed. Many were cool at the announcements; some played their IPAD2; others were fiddling with the smart phones.  This was a good opportunity to listen to local Singaporean English.  At first, I thought it was kind of haphazard; but very quickly, I realize the staff were doing a fabulous job in keeping the passengers cool and calm.

Suddenly, I heard shouts of "keep left, keep left".  Then, I saw from not so far away fire-fighters, first-aid members and other security personnel.  It’s interesting to see that we tend to get confused as to where is left, when one is underground.

I did not keep track of the time, but it was long.  I learn a few things.  I think many Singaporeans, especially ladies, tend to faint easily.  Then, they really blur out.  Then, they quickly ask for help, and soon came the stretchers.  Aiyah, but this wasnt very exciting.

The exciting part for me was when the train operators decided that passengers can go out through the head of the train.  I didnt realise how far I was seated from the head of the train.  So, I decided to let everybody go out, and I sat through.  Oh Gosh, there must be a few hundred people in one train; and it takes a long time for the passengers to walk out calmly and slowly.  Imagine, if everybody panicked, and decided to rush out.

I was among the last few; and this was the first time, I walked the tracks.  Guess, the SHC walkists would have done a better job.  Anyway, I finally walked up to the Dhoby Ghaut station; and was directed to take the circle line to Bishan.  And, that’s where the nightmare for me started.

Two train faults and delays in one week really tested my patience.   I got called Uncle so many times.  Ok, enough from me.  Have you experienced train delays or being stucked in our public transport system?

Terence Seah 

 

ALAMAK, WHY ME!

Everyone of us has a story to tell. Having gone through half a century of living and working and being in and out of love, we certainly have encounter an experience that left a lasting impression.
We often wonder how we survive a certain situation in life which left us thinking and thanking providence that we are safe.

There are incidents in my life that left me thinking hard, was it a stroke of fate or lack of attention on my part?

Readers are encourage here to share their life stories.

Here are an excerpt of my life I want to share with you. I know that whenever we reveal a part of our life,
we put ourselves in a vulnerable position for others to judge us. Do we succumbed to such critical remarks or we stand firm in the belief that nothing will affect us as long as our conscience are sincere.
Some are ready to capitalise on the slightest mistake make which turn them into a monstrous rumour monger. Other take delight knowing that we commit a grave offence.

I have come to a stage of my life where I am past caring. Each step on our journey of life brings
us nearer to meet our Maker. Not many of us may live long enough to write our biography. Here is
such an opportunity. I believe story can be shared to bring out the intricacies and beauty of life.
Can we know joy without going through pain or happiness without sorrows. Most of us are well brought
up in life having parent that ensure that we are loved and are given an education that set them for
life, what about those that are deprived?

My story:

‘When I was in Secondary School, I remembered an incident that till today I wonder why I did it. It
was the school sport day, I was a venture scout. We were supposed to put up a show where some of us
have to walk on an omega bridge which is  made of rope suspended about six foot from the
ground, another rope is suspended above our head. I have a part to play and that is to fall off the
bridge. As I fell off, the St. John Brigade rush forward to attend to me, the nurses were concern and enquire for my well being. A stretcher was make from two poles and a scout shirt act as the canvass. I was carried to the tent where I stood up and walk away without a scratch.

This act was enacted to show the preparedness of Boy Scout. How did I survive the fall, well, I was
able to break my fall because since young my dad took me for judo class, I think I have a blue belt
but my older sister the brown belt. Why did I shared this, it because if I fell wrongly, I may be paralyze for life!’

SHC platform is for us to meet new friend and to get better acquainted. Usually better rapport
are achieved in meeting or smaller group. Doing it here on the post is another ball game, can it
achieve some form of understanding and care among member?

Now you know a part of my life and what make me tickle, do I bite? Would you dare to share your most
unforgettable and memorable moments in your life here?

There are more incidents to share, my next installment:
How I try to ‘commit suicide’ when I did a bungee jump’

Dan

Puss n Boobs

With fear and trepidation I shall  proceed to put up this post

Dun worry, no contorted extravaganza.

Geraldine and Daniel, here goes.

Puss n Boobs.

Ah ha, Tom cat was looking for his boots and found tabby cat looking at her boobs.
(Sound sexciting!)
Tom cat asked pussy cat to go boot camp.
(How come you read my mind?)
Hee. Camping site is ready dear. Bring the sticks to set the fire.
(Good, we shall have a rendezvous!)
Pussy cat will be waiting in the moonlight.
(Tom cat shall swing along in the twilight!)

Meow.

(Meow, meow)

The conversation goes on, wat do you supposed it will be like?

Dan

Time to crack some heads.

Just an excuse to bring live to this post, I am about to pose some riddles on lateral thinking. The topic on the economic situation now and in the future may seem hard to bear but to some of us we prefer to act like the ostrich who attempts to ignore unpleasant facts and situations.

These ten riddles may require much stretching of the imagination, not to think logically but to think laterally.

1. The Man in the Elevator.

A man lives on the tenth floor of a bulding. Every day, he takes the elevator to the first floor to go to work. When he returns, he always takes the elevator to the seventh floor and then walks the remaining flights of stairs to his apartment on the tenth floor. Why does he do this?

2. The Two Americans

There were two Americans waiting at the entrance to the National Museum. One of them was the father of the other one’s son. How could this be so?

3. A Chess Piece

Two grandmasters played five games of chess. Each won the same mumber of games and lost the same number of games. There were no draws in any of the games, How could this be so?

4. The Coal, Carrot, and Scarf

Five pieces of coal, a carrot, and a scarf are lying on the lawn. Nobody put them on the lawn, but there is a perfectly logical reason for their being there. What is it?

5. The Silent Cabbie

A Comfort driver picked up a lady who was a notorious chatterbox. He did not want to engage in conversation, so he pretended to be deaf and dumb. He pointed to his mouth and ears to indicate that he could neither speak nor hear. After she alighted, he pointed to the meter so that she could see how much she owed. She paid him and walked off. Then she realized that he could not have been a deaf mute. How did she know?

6. Happy or Sad

Three women dressed in swimsuits were standing together. Two were sad and one was happy. But the sad women were both smiling and the happy one was crying. Why should that be so?

7. The Coffee Drinker

A man in a restaurant complained to the waiter that there was a fly in his cup of coffee. The waiter took the cup away and promised to bring a fresh cup of coffee. He returned a few moments later. The man tasted the coffee and complained that this was his original cup of coffee with the fly removed. He was correct, but how did he know?

8. The Dream

The boss of a storage warehouse had just arrived at work when one of his employees burst into his office. The man explained that while asleep the previous night he had dreamed that one of the stored boxes contained a bomb that would expode at two pm,. causing a terrible fire. the boss was skeptical, but agreed to investigate. After a search, a bomb was found in the area foreseen in the man’s dream. The police were called, the bomb defused, and a tragedy averted. Afterwards, the boss thanked the employee sincerely and then fired him.

The sacked  man had not planted the bomb, and his prophetic dream had saved the warehouse from destruction. Yet the manager was right to fire him. How could that be so?

9. Anthony and Cleopatra

Anthony and Cleopatra are lying dead on the floor in an Egyptian villa. Nearby is a broken bowl. There are no marks on their bodies and they were not poisoned. Not a person was in the villa when they died. How did they die?

10. Five Men

Five men were proceeding together down a country path. It began to rain. Four of the men quickened their step and began to walk faster. The fifth man made no effort to move any faster. However, he remained dry and the other four got wet. They all arrived at their destination together. How could this be so?

N.B. They relied only on foot power.

11. Family Reunion

At a family reunion, it was found that the following relationships existed between the people present: Father, Mother, Son, Daughter, Uncle, Aunt, Brother, sister, Cousin, Nephew, Niece. However, there were only four people there. How could this be so?

12. Stuck Tight

A truck became wedged under a low bridge. It could not move forward or back without severely damaging its roof. The truck driver was perplexed until a little girl standing nearby suggested an easy solution. What was it?

13. Another Riddle

What is it that the man who makes it does not need; the man who buys it does not use himself, and person who uses it does so without knowing?

How many reasons are there to explain for what will happen to the Singapore economy this year end and next year?

That’s nice.  I just read Dow 30 got hammered.  And Euro stocks are again slammed left and right.  And, we now hear the Super committee is going to be a failure.  And, our Singapore economy is going to register growth of between 1 and 3% next year.  The Straits Times reported job lost is going to be likely next year.  May or may not be a repeat of 2007/8; but nonetheless, we are talking about it.

We talk alot about our activities and our social lives.  Let’s share some talk about the world around us or the Singapore we have here. What do you think? And how do you feel about the year end and next year.

Terence Seah 

 

Other events in the coming months

After the Hokkien Karaoke event, I hope to see other events coming up.  For those who are planning to be EOs of this event, you may also approach Dolly Lim or other senior SHC members for assistance.

I hope that the Canton event will take place next month.  The year end is coming; so do think about Christmas and year-end get-togethers.  Also, a New Year’s eve or New year event.  If you have a big bonus, maybe a generous one will work too.  I am out of Singapore during Dec and Jan, so I am unable to join any activity.

Chinese New Year comes early next year, so if we have a CNY lunch, this will be a good idea too.  Hope someone picks this up and raise his/her hand.

Little parties here and there.  Yes, many of you have made friends, so I would think you would have little parties here and there.  I can only say, have fun!

If you have ideas or suggestions, toss them up in the air for all of us to read. 

Terence Seah

 

Life’s Little Mysteries

He ‘lived his life on his own terms’ *
So brilliant was his mind – a latter-day genius,
So successful, so rich, the world’s adulation received he,
But he could not control his pancreas,
Neither could the best doctors in the world.
He died young – in his fifties.
Why? Why? When the poor and the needy sick
are still alive at eighties and nineties?


*S.T. A12. 8/10/2011. RIP Steve Jobs

comments welcome

Familiarity Breeds Friendship: Not Contempt.

Hi Terence & fellow SHCians,

We all bunched together in the name of friendship to share identical interests and hobbies and to fill up some perceived voids in our lives.  Many of us have working married children who do not need us anymore. So it is all the more pertinent to start smiling at and speaking to fellow SHCians participating in the same social event of the time.  In being forthcoming on befriending others, we are rewarded with their friendships.  Somehow I got to know a couple of people on my first SHC walk and at the recent dance party at the Kovan Paya Lebar Community Club.  At the dance party like my first walk participation, I wasn’t acquainted with anybody.

Cheers,

Terry Tang

Great Lovers

I was about to unsubscribe my Straits Times newspaper for lack of news. But
todays front page news in the Home section is about this 60 over years old
accountant suing his former girlfriend for $400,000 he spend on her and she in
turn counter sue him for half share of a $1.24M flat. Now that is news. I am
grateful to ST for this brilliant piece of reporting and will continue to
subscribe.

It concerns me because this guy is about my age and in the same profession.
It could be me!!!

Also I am sure there are lovers among us happily exchanging gifts while
whispering sweet nothing this evening ……it is time to contemplate. Or am I
the crude unromantic guy?

The facts of the case sounds quite straight forward, so I am sure you all
have your own opinions about who is wrong and what is the best way to settle
this case.

Lets hear you, especially the ladies, we men need to learn.

Looking for like minded people to live in such retirement community to realise my dream

Hi, this is Lorna.

I look forward to join the activities with the silverhair, the blackhair
& the colouredhair.

I am curious how people decorate their house. It never fail to reflect the
personality of the owner. So, I make a living looking at houses – helping
people buy their home, unlock their asset by selling their house etc.

It is good to be healthy. So an active lifestyle is the way to go. Swim,
cycle, excercise in gym, walk in the park, travel, make friends, eat good food,
draw and paint, reading – are things I love to do.

Will be good to retire far from the madding crowd in Singapore. This place
is getting too crowded and expensive. A quiet place fronting the sea with
natural beach, living close to nature, good friends to engage in meaningful
activities; go back to basic, plant my own food etc is my ideal way to retire.

Looking for like minded people to live in such retirement community to
realise my dream.

Lorna Yee

We are safe n sound at Bra Cafe

Dear All concerned members,

We are safe and sound….

Margaret and rest of us (Rebecca, Helen and me) would like to convey
our many thanks here for all concerned members who had called us at the very first
moments when they received news of the fire at Alfro Asia Building on August
10, 2011 around 10.15am. 

Fire was started at the 7th storey, thus, at Bra Cafe, they have more than ample time to evacate safely. 
I was on my way to Bra Cafe as I was working the lunch shift hence, no
damage at my side la…

I wish to apologise to those had called me but I had ended their
abruptly as I was still receiving other members’ call while at the same time
answering.  Sorry, Daisy and the rest…  

Many thanks from Margaret, Dolly, Rebecca & Helen. 

Will the world economy collapse on Aug 3, 2011?

We have many gurus, fortune tellers, market analysts and current affairs
writers in our club.  There is plenty of concern that the US will not be
able to borrow and print more money to use, after Aug 3.  Many US
government employees will not be able to be paid their monthly salaries. 
And, worst, US bonds and other securities will be downgraded, together with the
US dollar.

I wonder whether this will be a frightening time in our lifetime.  And,
it’s not just the US, there is Europe to worry about.  I am aware
some guys in SHC have already liquidated or disposed most of their
holdings.  Many countries have lost confidence in the US
dollar.  Perhaps, a good time for all of us to put more gold necklaces
around our necks.

Have you been following?  or have you been worrying?  Share with us
your views and thoughts?  If not, how about a good prediction where the
world economies will head before 2011 comes to a close.

Terence Seah 

A reflection

Must thank you again for "creating" THE SILVERHAIRSCLUB.

I’d joined SHC mainly because of my interest in cycling and making new friends.  For the 1st year, I’m a follower enjoying all the EOs who organised wonderful events. Kelong trips was my first experience in being an EO and I’m glad it was well received and most importantly, everyone was happy, crazy and behave like e are all in our younger days. Not to mention, the capable and enthusiatic co-EOs and the participation of all who signed up.
 
Basically, I’m a very shy & not so socialable person, never involve in drinks and music, but without SHC and you, I’d not have the confidence going on stage to sing & perform in the various events esp SIC and PromNite…….all the more even have the courage to face big groups in the many SHC gatherings & events.
 
Many members are warm and easy friendly. With the variety of activities, one can easily be involved and never experience any dull moment. I always believed that oneself must be sociable and make the full use or opportunity at every event, creating the fun and in each and every event.
 
With the interest from members, Janet & I would surely be encourage to organise another Kelong trip in 2012.
 
Salute to you!

Thanks & Regards
 
Tan Boon Liang

Let’s help bring our children, or even our nieces and nephews together

Most of us have adult children, and a few nieces and nephews.  For some, they have probably finished their formal education and are already at work, beginning a life of their own.  This morning, I read an article that the Sngapore marriage rate has dropped to a record low.  Forget about the statistics.

Shall we do a little bit for our children, nieces and nephews?  A relationship between a girl and a boy is one of the sweetest links in life.  The feeling of holding hands together and hugging one another.  It is such a nice feeling for a couple to look into the eyes of one another. This is romance.  Of course, there is a lot more to marriage; but romance is just the start.

Many of us have been married, some more than once.  That includes me.  We have children, and we want to see them live a life of their own.  A little bit of effort on our part?

Shall we do something for our children?  Think about them.

Terence Seah

Introducing Corporate membership to SHC

Currently, we only have individual membership in SHC.  The objective of SHC is to provide a platform for SilverHairs to meet new and more friends.  To some members, this objective has been met, and consequently smaller groups are formed, and they continue with their own objectives and interests.

Some members have organised activities for themselves as well as for other members.  They play the role of Event Organisers EOs and Event Coordinators ECs.  The costs are usually shared.  The organiser makes all the decision.

SHC is a moderated club; and its rules does not permit discussion on politics, sex, race and religion.  It also does not engage in direct selling and MLM.

However, I do notice an interesting pattern.  Many members like to see events being organised; but few would raise their hands to organise one.  When the EOs organise an event, there is a general request for more items to be added; but very few realise that the work in the background has to be done by somebody or a group of people.  Besides the current activities, there are other activities that we can focus on.  Many EOs put in their own time, money and effort, and yet many would quibble in the background that someone is making money out of the activity.  In a number of travel activities, some members even question the need to pick up the share of the organisers.

For some time, I reasoned this behaviour as attributed to the lack of time as one needs to still work and support their well being. I also think that we feel we should behave well above the general population, that we should not be cheated, and that if we have the money, we can do what we like to do.

When SHC started, it was conceptualised as a club whereby membership is free.  This works well, because we do not have costs and manpower to burden us.  We also do not have a clubhouse or society to add to our month’s burden.  This concept has worked very well for the last 5-6 years.  And, we will continue so.

However, we hit into snags when EOs want to organise an activity; but find that that the inertia to get the minium count can be a non-starter.  Add in some negative feedback, and the EOs can really feel dis-heartened.  We have many supporters in SHC, and they are the ones who help encouraged the EOs to continue with their plans.

I have always objected to corporate membership within SHC, although I dont think I know why.  I am beginning to think that maybe corporate membership can be one way of increasing the number of activities in SHC.  Here’s what I think of Corporate memberhship.

  1. Corporate membership would be a new category with SilverHairsClub.  Membership is usually termed for one year.  Corporate membership would not be free.  By Corporate membership, I refer to a company.
  2. Corporate members that support our activities would have to fund the activities that they have in mind, as long as it supports the concept of SilverHairs age group, retirees and seniors.
  3. Indidvidual members are not allowed to advertise, although Corporate members would allowed to advertise but will not have access to the club’s membership database.
  4. Besides activities, it is very likely that we will be able to increase our club’s membership significantly, with the support of Corporate members.
  5. SilverHairsClub.com will continue to run as it is running now, with a Club manager.

Now, I dont have all the ideas to get corporate membership moving.  However, if you wish to participate in this idea on Corporate membership, please feel free to let me know.  As members have not offered to take over SHC, I have decided to put SilveHairsClub under an entity sometime this year.  It is very likely I will appoint someone to run this entity.

Terence Seah

Sometimes, I just dont understand why some organisations are so stingy?

I have been following up on story about the young Thai girl, who came to Singapore to study and met with an accident.  She fell onto the tracks, luckily she is still alive, but lost two of her legs.  Parents came down to Singapore, and the young girl is now back to Thailand.

The family has to settle the huge hospitalisation and medical fees.  SMRT gave her $5,000.  And, our media took pictures of her appearing relaxed and happy, as she left Singapore.  In my mind, this is a rediculous amount, coming from SMRT.

Today, I read that some anonymous donors have given $250,000 to the young girl.  Is SMRT afraid of setting precedents?  Is SMRT afraid that they will take over the role of the insurance companies?  Can you help me uderstand SMRT’s thinking?

Terence Seah

You are next !!!

Last week we watched on TV, a video clip of this frail old woman sitting naked under a running fan. She then get toss onto her bed unceremoniuosly like a sack of manure. Whilst on the bed, she got slapped for groaning.

I am sure this scene get repeated in other old folks home and indeed in normal households. YOU may eventually be the next victim!!

The incident shows that money cannot buy care. You can pay the nurses 3 times more than thay can get at home but you cannot get them to care for you unless they have it from within. You can give your children all your wealth and intelligence but that does not mean they will care for you. Our Ministers gets 100 more salary than an average citizen ………(censored by author) 

This post is to solicit ideas on how WE can avoid being ill treated when we get real old.
Here are a few ideas which comes to my mind….just for discussion. 

We have to show care to others and hope divine justist exist. 
Give caregivers kindness and hope they will return kindness.
Give them money, little at a time,  in return for a little care each time.
Tell them the video camera is watching and recording them.
Tell them GOD is watching them?
Tell them about Hell, for people who mistreats the old.
Have policeman stationed in all old folks home.
…more….

How are we affected by the US economy?

Today, the global newspapers are reporting a seriously gloomy view of the US economy, acknowledging that it is growing slower than the Fed had expected.  Last night, with his head down most of the time, Fed Bernanke said that the US economy is recovering from its worst financial crisis and the most severe housing bust.  Recent data showed a rise in the unemployment rate to 9.1 percent in May.  It now faces additional pressures ranging from the effects of the Japanese disaster to global pressures in the commodity markets.

If you have been keeping yourself current with world events and are concern about the Asian markets, where do you see our investments, savings and the Sing dollar heading for?

Many SilverHairs are resigned to having to work until 62 or 65.  For the luckier ones, retirement savings are in insurance, CPF  and bank deposits.  Luckier ones have a house or condo to rent out.  Still, we have many friends around us with good adventures in trading shares and other instruments.

Do share and discuss.  How are we affected by the US economy? Where is the direction as you see it.  Respect for the views of other members appreciated.

Terence Seah

CPF Minimum Sum raised to $131,000 from July 1, 2011

Some current issues are worth discussing on this forum. Below is on example. It is important we maintain the taboos of the club, and discuss ideas and suggestions, and hopefully this feedback will get to some ears. Personal criticisms especially directed at positions or persons woukd not be accepted. Keep out political discussions, and stick to ideas and suggestions or counter-suggestions.

FROM July 1, the CPF Minimum Sum (MS) will be $131,000, up from $123,000 previously, the Central Provident Fund announced in a statement on Tuesday.

The new MS will apply to CPF members who turn 55 from July 1 2011 to Jun 30 2012, those who can set aside the MS fully in cash can apply to commence monthly payouts of $1,170 when they reach their draw down age.

The Medisave Minimum Sum (MMS) will also be raised to $36,000, up from $34,500, whereby members will be able to withdraw their Medisave savings in excess of the MMS at or after age 55.

The maximum balance a member may have in his Medisave Account, also known as the Medisave Contribution Ceiling (MCC), is fixed at $5,000 above the MMS and this would be increased to $41,000, up from $39,500.

Any Medisave contribution in excess of the prevailing MCC will be transferred to the member’s Special Account if he is below age 55 or to his Retirement Account if he is above age 55 and has a MS shortfall.

The CPF Board said the increase in CPF minimum sum, MMS and MCC, which includes an adjustment for inflation, is to ensure that Singaporeans set aside sufficient savings for their retirement and be able to meet their healthcare expenses.

(Copied from ChannelNewsAsia”.

Terence Seah

Facial Kua-Sa (Ladies Only) – Hands-on Workshop 14/May/2011(Sat)

Hi

I will like to share my experiment of facial Kua-sa with those ladies’ who are interested to have a younger looking skin.

I am not a professional Beautician by trade but I picked up this Facial Kua-Sa a few years back and have benefitted from it . I  have  be using this method to do monthly facial on my own at home and have save money for not visiting the SPA.   A few SHC members have see the result of this  facial Kua-sa .

I have very bad pigmentation as I am always under the hot-sun with my kids’s outdoor activities. With this facial method  –  it have lighten the pigmentation ,  lift-up the skin around the Cheeks where it will always form a "Pa-Zhi" as we age. It helps to soften wrinkles on the fore-head as well as crow-feet  around the eyes.

This  facial Kua-Sa will help blood-circumlate around  the facial area which result in a more radiant  & growing skin.

So , all the "Ai-Swee" ladies who are interested … Sign in for a morning class at Cafe. 

Venue : "Bra" Cafe

Date : 14/May/2011(Sat)     Time : 10.00Am – 12.00 Noon

Course Fee : $25 (include a Kua-Sa tool worth $15 to bring home after the class)

                      Include one "lemon Whitening Mask"  which we will be using during the class

 

Things to bring  : *   Day cream (yr own daily use cream)  or  Baby Lotion  

                             *   Small Mirror

                             *   Pen

                             *  hair-band or a towel to tie your hair back 

 ** Please come without your make-up but is ok to apply your day cream as we will be doing a Hands-on Demo in the class **  

Do come down  for a "Cha Bor" Morning breakfast & Chit-Chat session and  make yoursel "Mei Mei" for the day to come.

Karen Thio 

"Ai-Swee" Cha Bor Supporters
 

  1. Janie Leong   (make myself Swee Swee – sure I come)
  2. Caroline Gee ( to attract prospective Aussie beau after the Kua-Sa ) 
  3. Maria Tan
  4. Pauline Khoo ( refresher Course) 
  5. Irene Seet ( eager to be a fair Lady) 
  6. Janet Chan (chop a place here)
  7. Sockie ( specially keep this time slot for the class) 
  8. Helen Kuek ( don know what is "Kua-Sa" – so eager to learn)
  9. Sally Kang (cfmd coming)
  10. Dora Lim ( something new – she want to learn)
  11. Lina Ng (sms registration) 
  12. Ann Toh (sms rgistration)
  13. Cynthia Neo ( want to be a fair lady) 
  14. Clarice Ng  (never meet her B4)
  15. Oi Cheng ( long time no see)
  16. Margaret Lee (From Cafe ??)
  17. Yatsing (The Beer Queen)
  18. Rebacca (From Cafe ??)
  19. Jessie Lim (Lawrence’s Wife)
  20. Pauline Ho 
                                                   * R E G I S T R A T I O N    C L O S E D *
Photos by Boon Liang

A Tribute to Robert Quek

Latest Update : Robert’s Wake is held at Mount Vernon Sanctuary, Purity Hall.  Was told that funeral will be on this Friday, 8 Apr 2011 – Details will be updated later… Dolly

Another SHC member, Robert Quek had left us today (Apr 4, 2011) – He was admitted on April 1 to Tan Tock Seng Hosptial due to massive stroke which subsequently went into coma.  Sad to be told by his family members that his heart had stopped and passed on with  both Kristy and son by his side.  Many friends were beside him. – A group of us were there to pay him visit before this and we were all praying hard that he is able to pull thru’ – I supposed Robert felt that this is best that he wanted himself to be.

Both Robert and Kristy had joined SHC in Y2007.  He was a good natured and humble man which I am sure that they were well liked by many other members.  He was very active in events’ planning for many SHC members.  I can still remembered that he used to arrange for  free concerts and movies at either Esplanade or NUS, Weekly MacRitchie walks, Dinner & Live Band at Changi Saiing Club, Monthly makan and social get together, Special wak to the Tree-top and Observation Tower, many Self Development seminars, etc etc

He was also a very sporting member which I can remembered very well during our 2nd SHC D&D – he was impersonating a Japanese dancer which brought us a lots of laughters and fond memories.

Sympathy and condolences to both Kristy and son and may we prayed for them to be strong to face life ahead.

As this point of time, I do not have any other more updated details to be given here.. Once they are available, I will update accordingly.

Always remembered by Dolly

Another fairy tale story in our time

Many of us may have remembered the grand wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana.  I was studying in London at that time, and was so excited to be able to be able to witness such a grand affair as a student.  Hundreds of thousands of tourists thronged London just to catch a glimpse of the royal couple.  However, Princess Diana is now gone; and the rest is just memory and history.

Another fairy tale is now in the making; and that’s the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton.  He is a soldier and the next in line to the throne.  She is pretty, clever and educated.  I just love fairy tales.

Where were you when Prince Charles and Lady Diana were married?  And where will you be when Prince William and Kate tie the knot?  In London?

Terence Seah

Hit by tragedies beyound our control

Last Friday, Japan was hit by a big earthquake, a huge Tsunami and now a nuclear crisis.  This must be the worst disaster, in our lives.  Thousands of lives were lost; and the tasks ahead are mammoth.  We have all read about this tragedy in the papers, the internet and the television.  How fragile is life.  How unexpected can tragedy escalate to what it is now.  And, to our friends, our families, and to the people we do not know.

We have been around for the last 45 years.  What a shock!  Feel free to express your thoughts and your feelings.

Terence Seah

A partner as we journey through our SilverHairs years

Today’s Straits Times carries a few articles which are very close to my heart.  They are articles on "Looking for Mr Right", "Single in Singapore", "Jumping in early" and ways to meet people.  I have always believed that having a partner and sharing our lives together, till death do us part is just as desired as the 5C’s or 6c’s that some of us search for all our lives.

I am also a believer that the older we are, especially when we are over 45, having a partner to share our joy, our sadness, our activities and hobbies, and our quiet moments, having someone to talk to, hug and kiss, and cry can be a nice experience.  Even though, these experiences may be the second or third time.

Although, in the articles, the focus was on the under 22s, the 29s and the early 30s, the objective is still the same for all ages; finding someone to be together for the rest of our lives.  There will always be some among us that will always challenge "why the need to", because they have good money, have got used to being single and enjoying their lives or they may have been pained at some stage.  But let’s not discourage the friends around us who may have been lonely for many years.  Living through our SilverHairs years can be lonely and painful.  We just have to find ways to overcome the journey ahead.

So, again, let’s help our single friends around us.  Dont, just go out alone with other singles.  Bring your friends along, introduce them and make that little effort.  Be positive, be encouraging and be active.  Be active and you will be seen.

If you have positive thoughts, positive ideas and encouraging words, do share with us here on this forum. 

Terence Seah

One Valentine kiss please

Each year, some of us may have difficulties getting our children to sit down for a reunion dinner or even to visit family members in the evening because it’s Valentine Day.  They have their own itinery; so it’s only right they go out fort heir own dinners.

I remembered for a couple of years, I was a similar problem to my parents.  These old folks just didn’t know what’s Valentine Day.  So, as the years passed, the event became more meaningful.  We planned elaborate dinners, maybe with steak and wine.  Then, we brought along the misletoe.   The years continued to pass, and maybe we got married, or we just find another mate.

For many of us still, Valentine Day is still meaningful.  Our kids may give us roses, "Ma, I love you.  Thank you for the many years, you looked after us."  Once in a while, not every year though, I would sneak a few stalk of roses to that sweet young girl in my friend’s office.  If she smiles back, that’s enough.  Cannot take it too far.  A little impulse is good.  Why not, after all we are human.  But, then, the brake should work.

Coming to over 45, I guess we become wiser.  We see our children or grand children enjoy their Valentine Day.  We sent roses to everybody in the office.  No discrimmination.  We think about our spouses, and say, "Let’s go out for dinner".  Maybe, gather a group of friends, with candle light below the table, have a couple of wine. 

Valentine Day is meaningful.  Dont let the day pass without giving it some thought.  Share with us, what are you doing for Valentine Day.  It only comes once a year.  Dont be shy.

Terence Seah

Shanghai, as the base for one full month this year

I cannot be too sure, if this concept will work.  But, sometime ago, I had a chat with Charles Chua, and we were talking about going to China.  We have not agreed on the month, but the concept goes like this.

I shall book an apartment in one of the major cities in China, for one whole month.  Perhaps, a 3 room apartment with cooking facilities, in a gated community.  Likely convenient to supermarkets, train stations or bus stations.  I was thinking of Shanghai or Beijing because of cheaper flight connections.

Participants can block by weeks, we can only announce after we find the apartment or house.  You can even block for a whole month.  Costs will be pro-rated.  Participants can travel anywhere they like.  There is no itinery or schedule or plan.  Participants make their flights to and out the residence.  Buy your own food, and get use to local Chinese way of life in Shanghai or Beijing.  Food can be as cheap as you want or as expensive as you desire.  You can even buy or rent a bicycle as China roads are great for bicycles.  Go see the little lanes, also practise your potonghua, have a hairdo, and drink tea the whole day.

China has long term visas for us, so you can even stay 3 months.  And, if you have a friend who has a house, ready to be rented out, do let us know. 

This trip is not ideal for those who are thinking of short stays like 3-7 days.  Not ideal for those who cannot walk.  Not ideal for those who enjoy Singapore toilets.  Not ideal for those who do not enjoy road side stalls.  And, not ideal for those who are sensitive to being lost.

Now, let the dream starts.

Terence Seah

Soon, the Rabbit year will arrive – Happy Lunar New Year

The Rabbit year promises lots of excitement and vibrance to all SilverHairs.  Whatever our age, I am sure we can all look forward to that something special.  Good health, reasonable wealth, and plenty of happiness.

This year, how about sharing with everybody what is your animal?  If you are an ox, we might try to pair you up with a chicken.  And, if you are a horse, we will try a goat.  If the pairing does not work, I am sure someone around us will be able to tell us so.  We can also know you a little bit better.  Are  you a rabbit?  How many of you are rabbits?

Share with us your predictions, what will the rabbit year be like?

Also, share your best wishes too.  Kong Xi Fa Chai.

Terence Seah

My Thought for the New Year

Today is 1/1/11. 10 days later it will be 11/1/11. 10 months
later it will be 1/11/11 and 10 days after that it will be 11/11/11.

The 1s’ looks like someone up there is wagging his finger at
us. We pollute the earth, fight each other, the wealthy live off the sufferings
of the poor, countries with more  weapons
are feared, there are more holy men and promises of wealth and heaven. Greed
seems to be the creed.

But if we stop to follow this wave we will be left behind
and be servant to the rich.

What to do eh?